I see that kind of behavior among men too.

I think it stems from Chinese culture. There is no concept of cooperation, live and let live, or compassion, or empathy in Chinese culture. Everyone tries to show that he/she is better than others. If he/she indeed is  slightly better off in however trivia manner , instead of be kind to the less fortunate, he/she would humiliate others by showing off in the worst possible way. As a results,  it creates a no win situation and Chinese turn on each other more often than any other race.

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• 同意。國人從小就這麽被訓練的。美國是把蛋糕做大，中國是鼓勵先下手為強。 -知人知麵- ♂ (0 bytes) () 04/18/2013 postreply 21:46:12

• 所以文革在中國才搞得起來 -Goinghome999- ♀ (0 bytes) () 04/18/2013 postreply 21:46:21

• 又怪罪到中國文化上來了，沒有compassion, 會有這麽多人關注朱令這案。還不是 -相對強度- ♂ (29 bytes) () 04/18/2013 postreply 21:47:39

• f people have more compasion, we will see fewer tragedies like t -ZoyaWashington- ♀ (0 bytes) () 04/18/2013 postreply 21:51:41

• I found one interesting result of practising compassion -ZoyaWashington- ♀ (317 bytes) () 04/18/2013 postreply 22:00:27