您的美國兒子內心世界您了解嗎？

我在看一本新書。該書作者是台灣移民的兒子，美國生美國長。

這是第53頁的一段，非常有意思：

Those first few years in Orlando, I hated being Chinese. All the f*cking kids I saw at Chinese school were herbs and I didn't fit what their parents thought a Chinese kid my age should be. I called everyone's parents "Auntie" and "Uncle" said "Please" and "Thank you," but I threw my tennis racket when I was pissed, took hard fouls playing balls, and if I didn't study, I'd copy other people's homework. I wasn't built like them.

After I went back to my dad's neighborhood, everything started to make a little bit of sense. The whole neighborhood loved him. He hadn't been back for twelve years and it was like he never left. He wasn't just some old f*cker kicking my ass, he was a neighborhood legend trying to make me a man, just like him. For the first time, I saw him and Taiwan as part of me. ......It was a country with characters, characters that I related to and found interesting. I wanted to know more about Taiwan and what it meant to be Taiwanese. Why did we come to a country where I can't even be on ESPN, if we could have stayed in Taiwan and been anyone we wanted to be?

該書的名字是：Fresh Off the Boat (recommended by People magazine)

作者：Eddie Huang

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• I do. My son loves to talk to me about everything, especially hi -ZoyaWashington- ♀ (406 bytes) () 03/27/2013 postreply 10:29:42

• 黃小文描述他在美國私立學校的經曆，可謂觸目驚心 -Simply_leaf- ♀ (281 bytes) () 03/27/2013 postreply 10:37:17

• 回複：黃小文描述他在美國私立學校的經曆，可謂觸目驚心 -gigi_98- ♀ (217 bytes) () 03/28/2013 postreply 01:46:35

• 讓孩子尤其是男孩子看到爸爸是個“風雲人物”是個受尊敬愛戴的 -Simply_leaf- ♀ (111 bytes) () 03/27/2013 postreply 10:40:27

• No wonder you are who you are. You read such a book? -mknc- ♂ (0 bytes) () 03/27/2013 postreply 10:35:01

• 圖書館的書，我們這裏的圖書館很小，我老有上學時候的衝動: -Simply_leaf- ♀ (99 bytes) () 03/27/2013 postreply 10:43:25

• You are so amzing that you bear to finish reading this book, f** -mknc- ♂ (0 bytes) () 03/27/2013 postreply 10:51:31

• What the h*ll are you trying to say? -Simply_leaf- ♀ (97 bytes) () 03/27/2013 postreply 10:56:05

• I'll stop reading a book if it fills with the F word. -mknc- ♂ (0 bytes) () 03/27/2013 postreply 11:04:31

• OMG! I can't believe you are such a -Simply_leaf- ♀ (15 bytes) () 03/27/2013 postreply 11:06:14

• go ahead, enjoy your Fs -mknc- ♂ (0 bytes) () 03/27/2013 postreply 11:16:12

• Go ahead. -Simply_leaf- ♀ (26 bytes) () 03/27/2013 postreply 11:18:08

• 我覺得男孩子的父母更要加強 -Simply_leaf- ♀ (85 bytes) () 03/27/2013 postreply 10:59:43

• Absolutly 100% agree! Strong parents grow strong kids. -ZoyaWashington- ♀ (196 bytes) () 03/27/2013 postreply 11:04:05

• :-)) -Simply_leaf- ♀ (0 bytes) () 03/27/2013 postreply 11:11:50

• 大部分孩子來了美國都不想走。 -goodwinn- ♀ (319 bytes) () 03/27/2013 postreply 10:52:19

• 這個黃小文是美國土生土長的，他原來上美國公立學校很舒服 -Simply_leaf- ♀ (197 bytes) () 03/27/2013 postreply 11:03:29

• 他應該跟父母溝通。 -goodwinn- ♀ (338 bytes) () 03/27/2013 postreply 11:08:35

• 他有跟父母溝通，但他父母跟這論壇上的很多人很象 :-) -Simply_leaf- ♀ (93 bytes) () 03/27/2013 postreply 11:21:10

• 也可以練武術。每個暑假去少林寺呆兩個月。嗬嗬。 -goodwinn- ♀ (0 bytes) () 03/27/2013 postreply 11:57:47

• 好久不見，問好！ 我馬上 -Simply_leaf- ♀ (35 bytes) () 03/27/2013 postreply 14:31:20

• 如果在國內,進入青少年期的孩子們也有很多困惑.這裏本地的也是. -weston- ♀ (224 bytes) () 03/27/2013 postreply 11:01:37

• 國內的文化比較統一。 -goodwinn- ♀ (240 bytes) () 03/27/2013 postreply 11:04:51

• 這是利用爬杆競爭心理去代替正常成長過程. 等到爬完之後,問題就來了.二三奶 -weston- ♀ (85 bytes) () 03/27/2013 postreply 11:18:36

• 好像這裏誰說過：青春期的時候沒有逆反，所以一輩子都是青春期。 -goodwinn- ♀ (66 bytes) () 03/27/2013 postreply 11:21:52

• 二，三奶和成長沒什麽大關係吧。 還是價值觀的問題。 -May1995- ♀ (153 bytes) () 03/27/2013 postreply 11:26:54

• 二三奶是泛指對女人的渴望 -weston- ♀ (0 bytes) () 03/27/2013 postreply 11:30:44

• ：） 泛指人的占有欲望吧。 -May1995- ♀ (0 bytes) () 03/27/2013 postreply 11:34:52

• 書中他提到他和他弟弟喜歡黑人充滿憤怒的Rap -Simply_leaf- ♀ (68 bytes) () 03/27/2013 postreply 11:10:21

• PBS曾經有過一個超級富豪家(包括福特家族)孩子們的痛苦.看了之後你就知道這和 -weston- ♀ (51 bytes) () 03/27/2013 postreply 11:15:02

• 西同學，這就是你的不對了， -Simply_leaf- ♀ (231 bytes) () 03/27/2013 postreply 11:25:31

• 治療最重要的一步,是了解you are not alone.所以group therapy很有效 -weston- ♀ (92 bytes) () 03/27/2013 postreply 11:33:57

• 該痛苦的總要痛苦，嗬嗬。 -goodwinn- ♀ (314 bytes) () 03/27/2013 postreply 11:42:49

• 成長都有煩惱。 移民的煩惱有時候壓製了成長的煩惱。 -May1995- ♀ (68 bytes) () 03/27/2013 postreply 11:14:04

• 怕就怕父母還自以為是，一個勁兒地以為 -Simply_leaf- ♀ (101 bytes) () 03/27/2013 postreply 11:16:28

• 我跟你說一下我小時候： -goodwinn- ♀ (340 bytes) () 03/27/2013 postreply 11:20:45

• 想起一句歌詞很恰當： -Simply_leaf- ♀ (67 bytes) () 03/27/2013 postreply 11:28:39

• 建議小橡膠來好好學學。 -Cherrylover- ♀ (229 bytes) () 03/27/2013 postreply 11:43:12

• 這句有詩人味道啊！ -Simply_leaf- ♀ (0 bytes) () 03/27/2013 postreply 14:33:15

• 回複：您的美國兒子內心世界您了解嗎？too much f'words. -zephyr2012- ♀ (0 bytes) () 03/28/2013 postreply 08:45:53

• This book's language is very strong, indeed. -Simply_leaf- ♀ (0 bytes) () 03/28/2013 postreply 10:39:36

• 怎麽就沒人覺得這是台灣人在罵中國人呢？ -秋色滿院- ♀ (0 bytes) () 03/29/2013 postreply 11:58:45