TRUST ME:

GO BACK TO CHINA AND TAKE THE OFFER.

green card is not a sure thing.and opportuinity cost of getting a green card while living in the states is huge (it's gonna take a while before u see the result).

once you have money u can well establishe ur family in china.

ur kid can go to US again once you are established in china if he/she want to.

even ur kid stays in china,not a big loss for him/her.the door is still open.

plus,china is fun in many respects.culture environment better than the states.

sorry for awkword language.

 

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• J就是擔心孩子再過來，會受咱們第一代移民的苦 回去對不起孩子 留下對不起自己 兩難 -laimao- ♀ (0 bytes) () 03/09/2012 postreply 08:31:47