The right way of good discussion is focusing on the valid part o

And ignore the parts that makes no sense if you want to get some value of it. It requres you to be a bigger person to do that. 

I agree the other side of Chinese style discussion is everyone exaggrate too much. Just look at the titles of articles in WXC you will know. That kind of exaggration ignites more resentment than real communication. At the end everyone loses.

It is nice talking to you. I got to go.