I don't think chinese are too competitive

I concur that chinese are not good at helping others, or good at securing the resources to do what you intend to do. Part of the reason is because they are not far-sighted enough to see values in others. Part of the reason is that chinese are just not team players. We, as chinese, don't know the team game very well. But I don't think chinese are competitive. Chinese are blunt. and perhaps confrontational, but not fiecely competitive. Perhaps we weren't exposed to the cultural subtelties growing up. I've met many defensive and confrontational fellow chinese, some in high enough positions for their technical capabilities, but I really have not met a handful of competitive chinese who are able to see beyond themselves in the competition.

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• 國人和老印的區別是ambition -lilipp- ♀ (208 bytes) () 09/02/2014 postreply 13:05:09

• nodnod -lilipp- ♀ (0 bytes) () 09/02/2014 postreply 14:55:58

• 對，老印比較主人公精神。咱老覺得要證明給誰看 -lilipp- ♀ (94 bytes) () 09/02/2014 postreply 15:00:11

• 是的。其實美國人也搞幫派的。國人搞陽謀就是搞不過人家。。。 -lilipp- ♀ (0 bytes) () 09/02/2014 postreply 13:07:37

• 國人搞陽謀 要用英語的，英語不靈說不到點子上，馬批沒能拍到 拍在馬腳上了 ：－） -ManOfHonor- ♂ (59 bytes) () 09/02/2014 postreply 13:21:41

• 你自己不行而已。你去查查，做係主任，或者院長，或者校長的中國人已經不少了。 -mapell22- ♀ (0 bytes) () 09/02/2014 postreply 14:47:49

• 美國的office politics 複雜得很。我在政府和公司工作不算短，感受很深 -法眼- ♂ (0 bytes) () 09/02/2014 postreply 13:24:34

• 老中到美國來的很多都是國內的尖子，讀書讀呆了，太相信什麽公平，個人能力， -FHZM- ♂ (234 bytes) () 09/02/2014 postreply 13:15:38

• 沒有公平，資本主義發展不起來的。 -mapell22- ♀ (162 bytes) () 09/02/2014 postreply 14:44:43

• You mixed competitiveness with competence. -ZoyaWashington- ♀ (463 bytes) () 09/02/2014 postreply 13:37:39

• That is exactly the point. -ZoyaWashington- ♀ (245 bytes) () 09/02/2014 postreply 13:51:18

• whatever you call it -lilipp- ♀ (301 bytes) () 09/02/2014 postreply 14:23:20

• 你說的這種華人“高人”我也遇到或者聽說過。 -野生動物攝影家- ♂ (202 bytes) () 09/02/2014 postreply 13:40:45

• 楊？ -es6- ♂ (0 bytes) () 09/02/2014 postreply 13:58:25

• 朱？ -es6- ♂ (0 bytes) () 09/02/2014 postreply 13:58:43

• 競爭性不強，但是爭強好勝。 -mapell22- ♀ (30 bytes) () 09/02/2014 postreply 14:36:53

• 還不會鬥爭 -lilipp- ♀ (0 bytes) () 09/02/2014 postreply 14:55:08

• 欺負欺負老實人還行。 -mapell22- ♀ (45 bytes) () 09/02/2014 postreply 14:56:29

• LOL是的。咱總結自己的缺點，以便更competitive 哈。。。。 -lilipp- ♀ (0 bytes) () 09/02/2014 postreply 14:57:59

• Only Chinese 老杜 is too competitive！ -lluvia- ♂ (8 bytes) () 09/02/2014 postreply 16:52:54