JK lift: Teraflex FullFlex vs Old Man Emu

I am still considering all options for my first major upgrade.

Currently I have two favorate choices

1. teraflex fullflex 4 inch lift + 35 inch tire

2. old man emu 2 inch lift + 33 inch tire

Option 1 is much more expensive then option 2. But I am not sure
if in the future it will actually save money by avoide continuous upgrade.

One friend of mine said that 33 inch tire actually performs better If
I do not regear. Because it provides more torque at the same rpm.
Also, he said 33 inch tire is more fun because You have to struggle through
the mud area while 35 inch tire will just let you go through easily.

My JK is a daily commuter also, so drivibility on streat should not be
comprimised too much

Not sure what to do yet. Any advice.?