開了一上午會,回來看到肉肉老師來的郵件。
上次在校車上,肉肉和小朋友動手了,原因是一個叫Mohammad的小朋友先打了他。
回來和姥姥,姥爺一說,姥爺馬上說:"趁肉肉沒在家,我得表揚這孩子,這明明是反恐英雄嘛!"
肉肉回家後,我也沒太說他,隻是很平靜地問了問具體情況,告訴他以後不要動手打人。
說實話,我心疼得不得了,就差補一句,別人要是打你,咱也不是好欺負的。:)
得讓對方記得,下次不敢再動手!
From: J
Sent: Wednesday, December 04, 2013 3:17 PM
To: 小活
Subject: 肉肉
小活,
肉肉 had some difficulty on the bus this morning. He told me that another student, Mohammad, slapped him on the face many times on the bus. 肉肉 said he tried telling him to stop and he wouldn’t so he punched him in the stomach. Both boys spent some time talking to 校長, and missed all of their recesses today. This is behavior that we cannot tolerate at school or on the bus to school. I am sending home a pink not e for you to sign after having a discussion with 肉肉. This note is usually used for classroom behavior, but it will be helpful for 肉肉 to have something to return to me.
Thank you,
J
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Ms. J
Thanks a lot for sending email to let me know the situation in prompt time. I was very worried yesterday because I totally agree with you that the bully behavior cannot be tolerated at school or on the bus to school.
I hope you have also contacted Mohammad’s parents to let Mohammad know slapping someone’s face many times is disrespectful to human being. Especially 肉肉 tried telling him to stop. This is not 肉肉’s fault, he was just trying to defend himself. I hope this won’t happen again.
I think this is a good lesson for my son too. We talked to him seriously to let him know never initiate bully behavior, also next time if anyone did something wrong, try to report to you or 校長 first before he takes any defense action on his own. This is school rule, we should follow.
肉肉 is such a little kid, he is very happy to go to school every day, we hope this event won’t affect his feeling for school. Please understand my concern and I greatly appreciate your care for 肉肉.
Best Regards
小活
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小活,
肉肉 seems happy and is doing well at school. I just wanted to check with you to make sure he is feeling fine about things after the incident on the bus. 肉肉 and Mohammad seem to be fine with their friendship in class as well. You had also asked if Mohammad’s parents were contacted. Yes, I always contact all students’ parents when they are involved in something as this was. Mohammad also spent some additional time with 校長.
Please let me know how you feel 肉肉 is doing.
Thank you,
J
又開始忙工作了,忙裏偷下閑,提前祝70的親們聖誕快樂!!:D