即使幸福與不幸的婚姻比例已經被同學們從 20%:80%,10%:90%, 1%:99%臆想了一遍,壇子裏還是很多夫妻屬於那小比例的份兒裏,真好啊。
死亡是每一個人都逃不脫的終點站,而且你永遠也不知道你會在哪兒跟終點不期而遇,在我們活著的時候,誠實的幸福的生活是必須的,怎麽才能更幸福一點兒呢?
也許沒有人能完全幸福吧,生活總有這樣那樣的缺憾。如果用百分比來衡量幸福感的話,我覺得我的幸福是7成,有些不如意的地方,但總體上也過得去。
70的童鞋們,你感覺幸福嗎?
Studies collated by the database say you tend to be happier if you:
- Are in a long-term relationship
- Are actively engaged in politics
- Are active in work and in your free time
- Go out for dinner
- Have close friendships (though happiness does not increase with the number of friends you have)
And there are some surprising findings:
- People who drink in moderation are happier than people who don't drink at all.
- Men tend to be happier in a society where women enjoy greater equality.
- Being considered good looking increases men's happiness more than it does women's.
- You tend to be happier if you think you're good looking, rather than if you actually, objectively speaking, are.
- Having children lowers your happiness levels, but your happiness increases when they grow up and leave home.
- And be careful of that morning commute to work.( Those who spent an hour on their journey to work were found to be significantly less happy than those who did not commute.)