InChinashowingcompassioncanbeharmful.InU.S.thisispositive,andnotshowingcompassionisacommonproblemforChinesepeople.Sorealizethisoppositesocialattitudetowardcompassion,andtothriveinU.S.showingcompassionisakeytosuccess![
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ComingbackfromtheChinatripwithPhil,definitelytotakestepstothenextlevel.Thefirststepistobeconfidentandtakeownershipofissues.Don'tstandonthesideline.Bementallyactive.It'srelevanttoyou.ThinkofDadwhothinksissuesarenotrelevantforhimandhebecoemsirrelevant.[
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Itseemsthateverythinghingesononething-howtoapproachpeopleandtalktopeople.Peopleareresponsive(i.e.,theydon'toverthinkyou).Thinkabouthowyouareapproached.Howdoyoujudgepeopleandmakeunconsciousdecisionsaboutthem.Beconfident.Simle.Andasksaysomethingeasytogetstartedandinteresting.Thentalkaboutmoresubstantialthings..[
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Tobeaninterestingandlikeableperson,it'snotthathard.
Ifyouparticipate,notjustwatch,youwillbemoreperceptiveandresponsive.
Fromthereyouwillbemorefunandhaveapersonaltouch.
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為什麽老覺得不如別人?前期生活造成的。裝也要裝出來,隻有這樣才能改過來。[
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1.Bereceptive:thisseemstobealesserproblem;
2.Bemoreresponsive(showaction):don'twait;
3.Bemoreassertive:don'tbeafraidtosaysomethingstupid;
4.Bemindfulofbodylanguage.[
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1.Focusonwork,thisisit!
2.Putdonw20mineachdayforgenomiccode.
Arrangeprojectsinaneasy-to-manageway.PutOneNoteonline.
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Ifyouareconfident,projectyourconfidencetopeoplearoundyou,includingyourlovedones.Theyneedtofeelconfidentaboutyou.AndtheyWANTtofeelconfidentaboutyou.Theywanttobeproudofyou.Tootherstheconfidenceyouprojectdeterminesyourpromotionandcareerlifeaswell.Theyneedtoknowthattheyhaveconfidenceinyoubeforetheywanttopromoteyou.[
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Youareinthehabitofthinkingofothersarebetterthanyou.Youarekindofshamedorunworthytobeontheircompany.Notso!Thinktheirsituationandmanyofthemmaynotbeinasituationasgoodasyours.Everyonehastostruggleactually.[
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ListeningtoaubiobookonthetreatmentofPOWsinJapanesecamps,itfeelsthatselfhadbeenunderthevictimmentalitysincechildhood.Youhavetodowhatyouaretold,followtherules,andstaylow.Howhasitbeenservingyou?Nobodyhasthoughthighofyoubesidesthatyouareaniceguy.Beengivingthefeelingofbeingonthelowestrankhavingtobenicetomakedo.YoumightneedtostayinthatPOWmentalitywhenbeinginthatrarecircumstance.Butitleavesanimpressionof...[
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