愛與被愛
人生危機時刻的感悟。
博文
(2009-09-13 21:58:48)
Bementallyactiveandspeakquickly.Themindisidlemuchofthetime,asaresult,itseemsdumb.Peoplecanfeelthisandthisprojectabadimageofself.Andtheywilltrytoavoidyou.Thinkquicklyandspeakquickly.Exchangemindwithpeers.Ifnochange,otherpeoplewillbesmarterthanyou.Dont'sitidle,respond.Lifeistooshorttowaste.Andotherpeoplearenotthatdumbasyousubconsciouslythink.Bemorementallyactive![閱讀全文]
(2009-09-13 21:52:15)
Peoplerespondtocertaincircumstancesinverypredictablemanners.Aftermanyyearsofconditioning,theneuralcircuitryhasformed.Oncetheinitialconditionispresent,thewayofthoughtorresponsepatternismostlythesame.Whentalkingwithpeople,italreadybecomesnaturaltoselftobeinaverydefensiveandpassiveway.Becometense,guarduphigh,andreadytodefendinapassiveway.Thisresponseisaresultoflong-termselfbehaviorandshouldbeeradicat...[閱讀全文]
(2009-07-20 21:17:32)
Theissueofnotbeingpeople-smartpopedupagainwhencallingmomyesterdayevening.Howtobepeople-smart?Firstoff,itisimportanttobepeoplesmart.Theoutsideworldcanbedividedintotwocategories,onebeingtheobjectiveworld,theotheristheworldofpeople.Beingtrainedascientist,Iamverygoodattheobjectiveworldnow.Sonowisthetimetotacklethepeopleworld.Howtobepeoplesmart?1-Standonyourownfeet.Confidencethatyouareasgoodaseveryonee...[閱讀全文]
(2009-07-13 21:56:49)
把注意力從自己的身上轉移到真正的目標上，一切問題反而都解決了。內心中再深刻，心念電轉，對方注意到的隻是正在交流的外在目標。一旦發現自己又在內注，一定要收回到外在的事情上來。09年生日唯一之感。謹記。[閱讀全文]
(2009-07-13 21:50:41)
昨夜驚夢，壞人作惡，我聲言力喝：有種斷我手臂。壞人拿刀竟然砍下，我已有預料，抽手躲避。接著猛然驚醒。這個世上，其實壞人比好人多得多。其實很多情況下人都有好的一麵，也有壞的一麵。如果你軟弱，他人壞的一麵就會占上風。所以一定不要怕，直麵一切危險和邪惡。人生一世，最根本的就是要站穩自己的腳跟，保護自己的人和信念。這些都是不能堅決放棄的。[閱讀全文]
(2009-04-19 19:05:26)
Therearemillionsofpotentialpartnerstochoosefrom.Whodoyouchoose?Tosomedegree,thisisliketofindajob.Youhavetofindajobthatexcitesyou,notjusttoearnaliving(otherwiseitwouldgetboringandsoonorlateryouwillchangetoanotherone).Ontheotherhand,thereisanINTERviewprocess,whichmeansthejobmustacceptyou.It'stwo-wayprocess.Agoodmatchmeansthatyoucanfullyusewhatyouhaveaneenhanceyourself,whiletheemployerisgladtohaveyou...[閱讀全文]
(2009-03-14 23:05:21)
Inaneraofcollectivethinking,itiseasytousemassthinkingasone'sown.Thinkthingsaswhattheyreallyare.Inscience,thisisapplicablebecausedon'texpectwhatothersaretryingtosellyouarecorrect.[閱讀全文]
(2009-03-14 23:01:57)
AfterreadingLincoln'smidlifecrisis,itdownsonselfthatownmidlifecrisisseemscomingearlierthanmostmen,whichisafterpassing40.Themarriagecrisisunwillinglythrowinnerworldoutofbalanceandintotalturbulance,promptingselfthinkmanyaspectsoflife.Thereareconfusion,rageoverothers,remorsetoself,deepstruggle.Itletsselfrealizethelong-rootedfearaboutmanythingsinownlife.Andselfwilldiesomeday.Onrelationships.Onnextgene...[閱讀全文]
(2008-11-01 23:28:49)
Nowwiththefloodingofbooks,it'seasytofallslavestobooks.Youfeelyouhavetoreadthem.Readingbooksmanytimesiscompulsory.Sometimestruthissosimpleyoudon'tbooks.Focusonthemostworthythingsandletgoodbookguideyouifneededonly.Whatisbooks?Themostimportantnowistocarryinformationorjustfacts.Basicallytheyaretheaccumulationofhumanknowledge.Beforereading,youneedtoknowwhatyouarelookingfor.
Ifyouneedtoread,findthebest...[閱讀全文]
(2008-09-01 20:48:08)
Whensomethingfails,don'tfeelsorryforself.InChineseitmightbecalledZi-Ze.Ifthefailureisduetoselfmistake,rememberthemistake,moveonandmakesureitwon'thappenagain.Ifitisduetoothersorbeyondowncapability,don'tevenfeelatinybitofsorryforself.//Ifyouthinkofsomethingthatyouwerenotgoodatsometimeago,nowwhenyoureflectonit-don'tfeelsorryforself.Justthinkwhatyouwilldonow.[閱讀全文]
