愛與被愛
人生危機時刻的感悟。
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(2012-11-12 16:01:35)
Don'tletyourmindgoidle.Beresponsiveallthetime.Failuretodosomaywellbethereasonwhypeopletreatyoulikeadumber.[閱讀全文]
(2012-08-17 06:17:37)
MostAmericansaregoodattalkingcontinuously.Ifyoudon'tinterruptthem,theycangoonandonandon.Ifyouhavesomethingtosay,butyouarepoliteanddon'twanttointerruptthem,youhavetowaitandwait.Sometimestheyjustswitchtothenexttopicafterwardswithoutstop,bythenyoufeellikebettertokeepthecurrenttopicgoingwithoutbringingthe "something"youhadearlier.Sothisprocessrepeatsandyouseattherewaitingandwaitin...[閱讀全文]
(2012-06-04 08:32:38)
Althoughyoudecidehowyouliveandwhattolivefor,otherscanusuallyseebetterwhatkindofpersonyouare.Sotheirjudgmentistruetoalargedegree.Candidlyinteractwithotherpeople.Theyareasintelligentasyouare.Don'tliveinyourownworld.Otherwisehowyoudoisbiasedforyourself.Letothersseeyouandunderstandyou.Knowtheirneedsandunderstandthem.Thisisthereflectionswhenshreddingcommunicationsfromthepastforcleaninguptorent.[閱讀全文]
(2012-05-22 14:19:15)
Alittledogisseriouslysickandsuffering.Hejustcannotstanditanymore.Whenhelooksatyouinhisdesperationforhelp,whatcanyoudoforhim?[閱讀全文]
(2012-04-16 08:28:25)
Smile.Itissoeasyforforget.Butitissoimportant.Itdirectlygivesothersanimpressionaboutyourfriendliness,confidence.Remembertodoittomakeyourexpressmorelively.Withoutitthefaceiscold,tightandnotlively.Doit!ThinkoftheGaotangXuPeng![閱讀全文]
(2012-04-02 08:47:07)
Friendsaregoingawaywhenyouneedthem.Alsoonanassociatedissue,yourtimidityandlackofconfidencewillaffecteverything,fromcareeradvancementtopersonallife(everyaspectofit).Sowhattodo?1.engagewithpeople,knowtheirneeds,interests,watchtheirmotives;2.lookatthemaspeers,knowyouareasgoodastheyare don'tbesubordinateandrephraseeverythingtheysaid;3.knowpeoplewillneverbereliedupon;theywillleavewhenyouarenotneed...[閱讀全文]
(2012-03-13 17:18:58)
Youcannotcountonanybody.Butyoudoneedfriends.Becausewearesocialanimals.Weneedeachotherforcompanionship,spiritualsupport,andforinformationexchange.//Howmanyfriendsdoyouneed?Asmanyaspossible.Youneedsomesoulmates.Buttheydon'tcomefromyourclosesearch.Theycomefromyourmanyfriends.// Don'texpectanythingfromyourfriends.Theydon'thavetohelpyouwhenyouareintrouble.//Dodifferentiatepeople.Notanyonecanbefrie...[閱讀全文]
(2011-07-02 21:37:15)
Thisyearb-day'sreflection.Gettoknowpeopleandgetknownbypeople.Youcanneverdooverexposure.Ratherthandyingalone,itisbettertoletpeopleknowyouareagoodperson.ThinkofthatdesertflowerthatHandidepiphany. [閱讀全文]
(2010-08-17 20:17:08)
人都有恐懼。但一定要想清楚自己怕的是什麽。不能無原則、或下意識的怕。明朝的張春芳是個好好先生，估計起因就在於他內心的恐懼，怕得罪人，怕丟官罷職，怕被殺頭。別人如楊繼盛、海瑞不怕殺頭，反而別人都怕。凡事看透，但卻不能怕。萬事都是如此。[閱讀全文]
(2010-08-17 20:11:20)
明朝的海瑞認為自己嫉惡如仇，實際上他是個頭腦簡單的人，徐階、高拱、張居正等人比他聰明多了，不僅看到了惡，而且有除惡的辦法。從這裏可以看到，看問題要看透並有解決的方案。有了方案就開始做，人生是短暫的，幾年如一日的動，就事事落在別人的後麵。自己也很被動。本該屬於自己的幸福生活慢慢成蹉跎了。切記切記。[閱讀全文]
