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這是朋友家發生的真實故事。她發在微信裏，經過她同意，我轉訴一下。疫情剛開始lock-down時，朋友家擔心疫情，沒有讓landscaper 公司剪草，他們家的草暫時由19歲的ABC兒子剪草，第一天出去剪草時，鄰居家的大狗（是一種比較凶的狗）咆哮著衝進我朋友家院子（雙方院子都1 acre以上）她家兒子回家給鄰居家打電話，沒人接，再出去時，狗又瘋狂衝進她家院子，朋友和她兒子想，鄰居也許不在家，明天再剪草吧！第二天下午，朋友的ABC兒子推著剪草機出去時，那大狗又氣勢洶洶衝進她家院子，朋友趕緊拿著樹棍出去，狗退回去，從院子裏看過去，廚房裏有人，鄰居在家，朋友和兒子站在院子裏，喊鄰居的名字，沒人回答，他們回家拿手機，如果狗再衝進院子，錄像留下證據。當他們拿著棍子（大狗，怕被咬到）還沒到院子，那狗又狂吠著飛奔到朋友家院子，朋友立刻錄像。朋友有一點生氣，明明主人在家，卻不管自已的狗，要把錄像郵件寄給鄰居，她兒子不同意，告訴朋友，你不能讓對方知道你手裏有什麽，應該先看看他們怎麽說，朋友對兒子說：那你處理。下麵是處理的整過過程。
  19歲ABC

Hi XXX
I hope everything is well with you. Yesterday as well as this afternoon I was planning to mow the back lawn and I noticed that one of the dogs was running around. I don't want to risk any accident - would you mind telling her to stay away from our yard?

50歲白男

The dog was in your yard?

  19歲ABC

Yes, she was there around half an hour ago. I am planning to mow the lawn now, if you could have her stay away I would appreciate it.
 50歲白男

Interesting, as I have had her in house since 510 pm. Must have been another dog. Our dogs get an electric shock if they come within 10 feet of border

ABC

We went outside a few minutes ago but unfortunately it was already raining. One of the dogs ran into the yard. If this isn’t one of yours please let me know as I am very concerned about unknown dogs in our yard.
 十分鍾沒有回答，ABC發出照片

Attached are more videos of the dog running into our yard.
 ABC兒子對朋友說，如果鄰居半小時不回郵件，就打animal control的電話。
50歲白男

Yes, in good neighborhoods it is very common for dogs to occasionally get loose.  The battery on Gertie’s collar failed, and she passed the boundary.  The battery has been replaced.
 
Both dogs are now contained, and should be for the foreseeable future. In next month when you attend to your landscaping you should be just fine. Feel free to safely mow your entire lawn

19歲ABC和朋友為了不把鄰裏關係弄僵，兒子回郵寫到

Thanks, XXX，Have a nice day.
這件事處理完之後，朋友對她兒子說：記住，這世界並不美好，好男兒一生都必須為自已而戰！
敘述完了，你們可以任意評論50歲IT白男和ABC的行為和處理方式，你們也可以根據此事展開聯想，評論美國文化和中國文化在處理衝突時表現出的人性的差異！

注：好學區，全部真實。

[PeonyInJuly]

謝謝分享！我正好遇到類似情況。