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縱然平行 說：＂I am going to share one more thought and leave you alone as I would see that you are probably being amused by all of the comments made with respect your writing.
The fundamental question you may need to ask yourself is that what criteria you should rely on to decide who would the right person to be with form the day of commitment to death setting you apart.
Are wealth and physical attractiveness important? Absolutely, they do. No one would deny fortune and attractiveness do make life more enjoyable (many people include me benefit from those two). Nevertheless, one should also aware the satisfactions from those thing tends to fade quickly, Moreover, they are easily dwarfed by other intangible , yet , crucial qualities of a person such as faithfulness, honesty, courage, determination, of course, unconditioned love … just name few. Working in Wall Street, I found that screening a good person bears remarkable similarity as uncovering a gem stock. Here, future growth rather current standing should be the center of focus since it is the potential that would provide tremendous reward and triumph.
Further more, you may need to use your other senses as well in order to get what you want/need in addition to what you can see. I learned to activate my full senses year ago in an incident and they have been helping me to do well in furious competition.
It was the first year I arrived from China and worked as a TA in my graduate school. One weekend in the fall, my professor invited me and other boys in the department to join him to go deer hunting. Personally, I’d prefer buying meat in supermarket let along to shoot a “Bambi”. But the combination of seeking thrill and securing next semester’s scholarship brought me to the trip. Once in the wood and separated from the rest of team I realized suddenly in the mist of morning fog I couldn’t even see things in few feet away. Excitement and bravery seemed dissipating as fast as cold sweat running on my back. A simple question surfaced in my mind: how I would know a shadow approaching would be a deer or person, worse, could I be mistaken as a game to get shot? For a moment I closed my eyes, I started to listen carefully what was happening in my surrounding. The sound of falling autumn leaves and blowing wind in the floor of forest, to my surprise, they began to communicate to me so clearly, I could tell my raw instincts kicked in to guide me. Amazingly on the spot I could sense and differentiate the rattle of a rotten family rushing by or the vibrations of foot steps of a much big creature. By touching the bark of the tree I leaned on I could tell which side would be facing north. First time in my entire life I was awakened and guided by the powers of other senses besides eye sight at apparently no man’s land.
To make the story short, I was the only person that day shot a deer (a buck over 150 lbs ) in our whole hunting team and received honor and congratulations. Needless to say I felt sorry for the poor creature I shot and promised myself never shoot again and I did. Later, I didn’t even bother to attend the dinner party grilling deer steaks hosted at my professor’s backyard. However, this hunting episode indeed revealed something to me from that day to now. That is, to survive and succeed one must senses what you may not able to see. ＂
謝謝你的真誠討論．
小黃沒猜錯，是被小Ｋ給奚落過，才來捏我這個鄉下人軟柿子來出氣的。我“好心”告訴你美國婚嫁是女方買單的，可能不是你想聽的，
沒有問過律師就來捏我這個鄉下人，就說明本來就有不良的企圖才有過激的反應。你捏軟柿子的時候也是居高臨下的口氣，再加上搔首弄姿的照片是大大的惹人厭的--給人的感覺就是挑釁的意味非常濃烈。
而我們歐洲男人喜歡的女孩是聰明的、有趣的、有個性的，這些優點加在一起，會讓一個外表不太出眾的女孩也非常有魅力。
說到那種特別功利的女孩，我在很多亞洲的國家都遇到不少。表麵上看起來她們很精，但我認為她們其實是非常無知的，她們以為歐美男人喜歡開放的女人，所以她們就努力讓自己顯得特別開放以博得他們的歡心，達到自己的目的。可她們中間有幾個能達到自己的目的呢"
我想很多人並不了解你的內心世界,把你看成了那種淺薄的女孩, 可我知道你隻是和人賭氣...........:)