Face Conflict Head-On

本帖於 2011-07-27 09:18:55 時間, 由版主 林貝卡 編輯

"Don't be afraid of conflict."

It's nature to become agitated when you face conflict or disagreement. But when you think about it, conflict is a part of life. It's inescapable.

Approaching conflict with a sense of calmness goes a whole lot further in making peace than getting all worked up.

Abandon the concept of winning and losing when facing a disagreement. Instead, think in term of resolution. Be flexible.

When the other side senses that you're interested in finding a solution, they will be much more agreeable. Rather than confrontation and conflict, you can work together in cooperation to find a solution that suits you both.

Today's affirmation: I approach conflict with a sense of calm.

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I cannot agree with you more! -beautifulwind- 給 beautifulwind 發送悄悄話 beautifulwind 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 07/20/2011 postreply 22:36:22

好文,謝分享。 -紓珈- 給 紓珈 發送悄悄話 紓珈 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 07/21/2011 postreply 13:16:33

是你自己原創的啊,真好啊。我啥時候有這個境界啊! -i999- 給 i999 發送悄悄話 i999 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 07/21/2011 postreply 23:37:03

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