to sunshineCA JJ, my way to control kid's game

I just read your story, and here is my way. though my way is too later for your son, just to share a little of my experience. :-) my son is 5.5 years older now, I began to introduce simple game to him half year ago. at first he likes the game very much,  I set a limit of 10 mins for him but he will be bery angry when the time is out. I insist the rule every time and tell him how harmful the game is if he played longer. Now he still play game 10-20 mins each day, but he will ask my allowance before he play, and when I say stop, he will stop playing. I am hoping that to let my son know how to control himself early, he will be much easier to control himself later.

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• Very good -naive2- ♀ (0 bytes) () 08/03/2012 postreply 11:14:37

• nice. I usually send my 4-year-old to clean the trash if she doe -sweetptt- ♂ (0 bytes) () 08/03/2012 postreply 11:45:22

• doesn't listen. -sweetptt- ♂ (0 bytes) () 08/03/2012 postreply 11:45:48

• 4歲就到垃圾。甜薯也太黃世仁了吧。 -zj071- ♀ (0 bytes) () 08/03/2012 postreply 11:47:51

• 咱地主得兢兢業業不是。我的女兒做事像模像樣。 -sweetptt- ♂ (491 bytes) () 08/03/2012 postreply 11:56:45

• 咱倆攀個親家吧。俺兒子10月6歲，家裏財不多，所以以後是你女兒說了算。 -zj071- ♀ (0 bytes) () 08/03/2012 postreply 11:59:10

• 誰說了算和錢多錢少沒關係。 -texastrader- ♂ (89 bytes) () 08/03/2012 postreply 12:02:08

• tt說的有道理。槍杆子裏出政權。 -zj071- ♀ (0 bytes) () 08/03/2012 postreply 12:11:07

• 已經有人要跟我攀親家了。不好意思改了。 -sweetptt- ♂ (0 bytes) () 08/03/2012 postreply 12:02:10

• 再生一個。。。 -HappyWed- ♀ (0 bytes) () 08/03/2012 postreply 12:10:59

• 男未婚女未嫁的有什麽關係。 -zj071- ♀ (0 bytes) () 08/03/2012 postreply 12:11:56

• 支持公平競爭。不得壟斷。 -texastrader- ♂ (0 bytes) () 08/03/2012 postreply 12:16:59

• 難道你兒子也想加入競爭？ -千裏66- ♂ (0 bytes) () 08/03/2012 postreply 16:40:28

• 不想。有興趣的人可以去競爭啊 -texastrader- ♂ (0 bytes) () 08/03/2012 postreply 23:32:59

• 唉，等他到15歲你再看吧。。。 -mickey222- ♀ (75 bytes) () 08/03/2012 postreply 11:57:25

• 有道理，五六歲的時候是聽話的時候。 -texastrader- ♂ (25 bytes) () 08/03/2012 postreply 11:58:55

• yes, that is possible. -wait..- ♀ (122 bytes) () 08/03/2012 postreply 12:02:36

• 你這個shared有點早，太陽姐姐的孩子16了吧，你孩子還不到6歲，你的經驗對她不會有用 -mickey222- ♀ (33 bytes) () 08/03/2012 postreply 13:25:38

• 六歲的時候就是小狼找頭狼的時候。但每隻小狼有一天會覺得他也可以是頭狼。 -sweetptt- ♂ (0 bytes) () 08/03/2012 postreply 12:03:48

• 每隻小狼有一天會覺得他也可以是頭狼。說得好！ -千裏66- ♂ (0 bytes) () 08/03/2012 postreply 17:08:17

• spoke too soon. -tgifriday- ♀ (0 bytes) () 08/03/2012 postreply 12:19:32

• 謝MM。這方法小時候見效，15歲的兒子，牛脾氣，隻能靠疏導的辦法。 -SunshineInCA- ♀ (192 bytes) () 08/03/2012 postreply 14:24:19

• 對，每個小孩都不一樣，要根據各自的特點去疏通引導 -wait..- ♀ (49 bytes) () 08/03/2012 postreply 19:06:17