We have to live and we need material to survive. You didn't hurt anybody and just want to protect yourself. Don't tell your husband that you know him everything. Keep it to yourself. I think you better check your bank account and know how much he transferred out. I know it is a hard time for you right now, but your have to face it. Being happy and smart. Find ways to solve your issue. You will be fine. Add oil. Add oil. Add oil.