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如果您不想對方再來打擾您,您需要的是申請一個Restraining Order,(相關的意義與內容如下)

http://divorcesupport.about.com/od/abusiverelationships/a/restrain_order.htm

同時這是一個很好的說明有關您所在州的相關資料

New York restraining order laws cover different aspects of what this state refers to as “family offense”. In other words, these restraining order laws cover topics pertaining to domestic abuse.

One of the main purposes of New York restraining order laws is to provide protection of victims against an abuser that live in the same household. This means that those who are abused by a former or current spouse or blood relative would be able to file one of these orders of protection against the abuser.

New York restraining orders also indicate what acts of abuse and/or violence committed by a family member or household member are considered family offense. Some of those acts of abuse include disorderly conduct, harassment, aggravated stalking, attempted assault, reckless endangerment, and more. Unlike most states same-sex couples or couples who have been living together who are not married are not covered by New York laws pertaining to restraining order.

New York restraining order laws make it more difficult for the abuser to return to the home of the victim where they used to both live together (or to find where the victim now lives). Likewise, these orders of protection help ensure that the victim’s children are kept safe. In addition, the court could put further stipulations on the abuse perpetrator such as that he or she must surrender all weapons, pay for abuse expenses, and to stay away from the children (possible loss of custody or other parental rights).

Despite some of the setbacks that still occur regarding cases of family offenses, New York restraining order laws do provide a certain amount of protection to the victim.

For example, the police will respond more readily to calls made by victims who have filed an Order Of Protection over a victim. Along with that, having an official Order of Protection on file against an abuser can make it easier to put that person behind bars.

個人會建議您與當地的警方或是當地的律師討論一下應該如何處理,因為一個比較麻煩的問題是您希望對方不要再次打擾您的生活,但是在此同時您不希望因為您所採用的任何法律行為造成反效果,不旦沒有阻止對方再次騷擾您反到是激怒對方從而做出任何過激的行為.

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