QDRO - qualified domestic relations order

I am glad that you stand up and fiight for your rights. A QDRO requires a court order at divorce. What you can get really depends on which state you both live and how long you two have married to each other. Please ignore those personal attacks. Please consult those attorneys who are experienced in this area. Wish you good luck. On the other side, one may not need that much $$, if you do not have a child issue.