"先分居等綠卡，拿到綠卡就離".

Your hu*****and is afraid that you cannot get green card as much as you are. Because if you cannot get green card, you might have to go back to China. Then, what to do with the kids? Is he ready to take care of both of them; or he wants to fly between China and US to see the kids once a year?
Also, you without green card, also means your job opportunity will be limited. If you earn less money, he has to pay more child support.

There is child support calculator on the net. E.g.,
http://www.alllaw.com/calculators/childsupport/arizona/

As he "loves" somebody else, the best for you is to move one and give him up. Of course, it will be difficult. For kids, you need to be strong. Also, do not use kids to punish him.

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