https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zSzhgg60YXs&t=454s
The wound that won’t heal’: Author Yiyun Li talks with Anderson about losing her two children
"In real life, you cannot talk about what if. It's about what now. Things happened. What now?"
We live in our own abyss... and can never fully get out of it, but we also constantly try to live a better, a wiser, a more joyful life, just to go through it.
We learn how to suffer better.