Couple Therapy - (the perfect narcissist example)

The Evolution of Annie & Mau 

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=B24M_8UFzOE

short clip: (comments told me 群眾的眼睛是雪亮的）

https://youtube.com/shorts/u2X8kmPc24Q?si=KrOnaVSwr3qxhLxm

 

This guy ( Mau ) is such a master gaslighter.

"The overuse of the word "narcissist" online and attributing narcissistic tendencies to anyone who disagrees in a relationship or simply messes up absolutely grinds my gears. It only perpetuates hostility between people and destroys the potential for repair. It's a horrible notion. And yet this man right here might be the first case in which I can, without a shadow of a doubt, use that word to describe someone."

 

"Narcissists are 'honest' and they can twist the narrative in a way that you would feel bad and you'll lose grip from your reality... sometimes you don't know what's real or not, most of the time you'll think "maybe i am the problem" because he is "honest and only wants the best for me" "

 

"I think I'm better than you. I can't say it, but obviously I am superior. I'm not going to downgrade myself to meet you there. Everyone would be happy if you just "got it" and rose up to the occasion of being with me, the perfect husband."

 

"Mau does an incredibly good job at centering himself and gaslighting every living creature in the room. Thank goodness they divorced, and good luck to any woman who crosses his path in the future...."

 

"I saw another part of one of their sessions with Orna and it was revealed that Mau grew up in a household that was neglectful (maybe overtly abusive). I'm not sure what part the father played, but the mother was identified as completely neglectful of him. At first I literally could not watch him. After that reveal of his childhood, I can see the pain underneath his Narcissism"

 

"Mau is a good example of a buried heart,- not on purpose and not by accident, but by trauma.... . He built a fassade of intellectual and moral superior, but you see it crumble every time he is confronted with honest given vulnarebility by others,- reminded of his own. It`s just sad for both..."

 

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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_lwqnZnkq0w?

How to spot a narcissist #1: Couples Therapy (Annie & Mau)

 

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=POopxOyQBz8?

How to spot a narcissist #2: Couples Therapy (Annie & Mau)