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想象一下:你新搬進一個公寓後,發現你被裏麵的蟑螂包圍了,它們時不時出現在你的所有物品中,甚至在冰箱裏出現。這會不會對你造成心理創傷?
我孩子為了暑假的實習工作,不幸住進了一個蟑螂成災的公寓,在那裏住了幾乎三個月。
這是孩子第一次自己一個人住一個公寓,還要獨自麵對一個蟑螂王國。
殺蟲公司去殺了兩次,加上孩子自己放的各種roach traps,也沒能徹底消滅各種蟑螂,死的活的還是不斷出現在各處,包括洗碗機,鍋碗瓢盆,床邊……,蟑螂簡直是無處不在。
孩子自從住進那個公寓後,幾乎每天都和我們講蟑螂的問題,講了一個多月後就不再講了,因為再講還是在重複老問題,沒有徹底解決的辦法,現在還差幾天她就完成實習可以搬走了。
孩子給我的text message:
I should be given some kind of award for dealing with the roach problem.
Most mental fortitude and grace of anyone ever who has lived in this apartment.
我立即寫給她的鼓勵:
You used to scream when you see spiders. Now after the roach immersion, you’re able to calmly deal with and co-exist with them, this takes incredible personal strength. Basically you have transformed yourself by lifting your bug-fear away. Although you’re still disgusted by the roaches, you managed to get even with them during this long lasting battle. Here I am honored to issue you the Roach-Combat Hero Award!
孩子一看就高興了,她的滅蟲掙紮和努力被看到了!