The Value of Memory

If you are not a big person, you got to remember a lot of things that are not important, because someone big will ask you a hundred times about it and there is not a chance this will help him to memorize it. In this case it is helpful to keep in mind an active list of constant numbers for him and it is critical for your promotion.

There is not straight answers to the question what the value of memory to a person is. There are always bad memories and good memories. To look at these memories means to look back constantly. The bad ones sometimes are good, because the painful feelings teach lessons. The good ones can be bad if the joy hinders you from moving forward. Is there a rule for memory management? I guess you have to choose and make decisions about it to achieve your goal, though goal may not have a lot of relevance to a lot of people's habits of memorizing things.

Let’s say the goal of your life is to “become a better person everyday”, which means to achieve the maximal exploration of your potential. The beauty of the goal is in great harmony with that of the life, which is best discribed as in “life is a box of chocolate; you never know what you are going to get”. So In this case, what are the rules about memory?

Rule No#1 memorize things that make you sound professional. LOL

Rule No#2 memorize the lessons you’ve taken from the bad memories.

Rule No#3 memorize the joy that will generate more energy for you to create more.

Rule No#4 Stop memorize when the memories make you tears but nothing else.

Rule No#5 Stop looking back if it doesn’t help you to live real in the real world.

Rule No#6 The best of all, good and bad memories all help to learn and conquer fear.

At the moment, what I need to do is to improve my memory as a professional. LOL. For the rest, I am not going to look back once again it only makes me wake in tears and feel unreal in the real world, but I’ll do that once more with him sometime next month. It is not for me, I’ve taken what I need from there. It is for him, to make him feel settled about us. Gosh, it is so painful; I need to be brave about this. Damn. But isn’t it self-illustrative once again that I am the best?