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靜秋，欽佩你的淡定，羨慕你擁有一段在最美的青春歲月 -Mango11- ♀ (218 bytes) (19 reads) 2006-03-20
裏最難忘的回憶，痛惜你曾經曆的悲痛。堅信老三和你從來沒有分開過，也永遠不會。。。祝福你們永遠。。。

感謝你和我們分享你的故事，也感謝艾米和HY精彩的文本。出書吧，我希望能有辛珍藏一本。。。

再次感謝！！！

 

 

回複：靜秋答網友 (鏈接) -Megan- ♀ (1224 bytes) (166 reads) 2006-03-21
Jing Qiu:
Thank you for the candid explanation.

1. What you experienced are typical for your generation and understandable. In 50s, 60s and part of 70s, love between two individuals was not encouraged,in some weird way "shameful". Teenagers at that time were very lack of education on love, relationship between man and woman. They did not expect to learn that from society, nor in most family.

 

In late 70s and 80s, finally there were more books to read. Most people got their knowlege from literature. They explored and experienced with some pride and some guilty feeling of sin from our ancient culture. Learning to respect each other came later because it is more difficult to learn. To me, Lao San was a rarity because he understands love and respect at time most young people did not.

2. Your sense of preparing for the worst even in good days was also quite a common attitude. In those enviroment, individual was so powerless, any change in society can turn one's life upside down.

3. Lao San showed wisdom in understanding love, I think he would understand marriage needs cultivation and would be a good husband.

4. I like your "Loser's philosopher".

Thank you for sharing your story with us.

 

 

 

由 meimei66 ♀     發表評論於 2006-03-23 17:29:00

Laoshan is an angel to show how the true love is. His beautiful soul lives forever in our minds. I admire his brave and unselfish love. Also, I believe he is happy in the heaven.

 

由 夢桐 ♀     發表評論於 2006-03-24 17:35:55

帶給老三：

在你逝去三十年後，有幸通過艾米的文字認識了你。這幾十天來，為你和靜秋的喜而喜，哭而哭。最後的幾天，難過的好幾天半夜醒來，無法再入眠。

相信人死不能複生，所以為你英年早逝痛心。但更相信死去的隻是你的軀體，你的肉身，而你高尚的靈魂一直以來就飛翔在一個我們不知道的地方，靜靜地守護著你的愛人，讓她相信這個世界是有真愛的，也讓更多認識你的人懂得珍視生命，珍惜自己的家人，朋友。

願你在天之靈安息。

 

 

因為最近一直心情不好,好久沒有跟貼了可是每天也在追著看, -misa---- ♀ (336 bytes) (33 reads) 2006-03-19
今天無論如何要寫一下了.

如果可以選擇的話,老三一定會選擇讓自己來承受失去靜秋的痛苦, 老三最後那樣做,實在別無選擇,況且靜秋還曾經說過那樣的話.

死亡使愛永恒.

感謝靜秋讓我們能夠分享她的經曆,這麽多年來,老三的愛一定給了你麵對一切困難的勇氣吧,它們和愛人的死亡相比又算的了什麽呢?!
感謝艾米和黃顏的辛勤筆耕和出色的後勤.

 

流淚不止，看著靜秋“叫不出聲，叫不出他的名字”，心裏急替她叫 -mitten- ♀ (138 bytes) (133
流淚不止，看著靜秋“叫不出聲，叫不出他的名字”，心裏急替她叫，真希望老三能睜開眼睛，能笑，當看到“兩滴紅色的、晶瑩的淚。”我的心也流淚。。reads) 2006-03-19