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混在美國名校(135)---從結束到開始之餐館受辱

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李三姐平平淡淡,不近不遠,該幹什麽幹什麽,不套近乎,也不得罪顧客。楊小靜幾次想親自動手,都被李三姐禮貌地謝絕了。馬叫喚:“羊呀,別把衣服弄髒了。”牛嚷嚷:“別把手弄粗了,教授會不喜歡的。”楊小靜鎮靜地笑笑,不去搭理她們。吉姆問她牛馬說什麽,楊小靜故作隨意地說:“她們在開玩笑。”她心裏明白李三姐親自服務他們這一桌的用意,就是不想讓她太難堪。李三姐跟牛馬不一樣,心裏的想法,臉上不會露出來,畢竟他們是顧客,是給餐館送錢來了。牛馬可不在乎這些,她們隻想發泄自己的羨慕、嫉妒和憤慨。楊小靜接著給吉姆介紹了一番自己在哪個地方做領位,又怎樣被小黑孩搶走了所有的錢,還有她在哪個桌子被人捏了屁股。吉姆一直誇她能幹,又對她以前的不幸遭遇表達了充分的同情。

 

楊小靜知道吉姆愛吃什麽,也知道自己應該點什麽,所以飯菜對於倆人來說還算可口,可是“當牛做馬的”卻不會讓她舒服了。他們剛開始吃飯,坐在離他們不遠的馬就開口了,很後悔的口吻:“你說我這個人傻不傻呀?非要自己在這裏拚死拚活地幹。你說我要是把老公踹了,找一個洋人老頭子,不就立即過上好日子了,是不是?”她對麵的牛卻以一種大義凜然的口氣說:“你傻不傻我不知道,反正我是做不出來那種缺德事!我老公再窮再慘,就算跟著他去要飯揀垃圾,我也絕不會去攀洋老頭的高枝,丟中國人的臉!”馬以一種諷剌的語氣說:“喲,你可真是老古董呀,還從一而終呢!這都什麽時代了?你知道什麽叫‘識時務者為俊傑’嗎?就是猴子上樹,拉上一個樹枝,再跳上更高的樹枝,你懂不懂啊?”牛可是堅定不移:“我不懂!我就懂得要吊死也隻吊死在一棵樹!老公不行,我自己能幹呀!我靠自己的雙手,養活全家還有富餘。我是站得直走得端,在誰麵前,我都是昂首挺胸!”馬繼續陰陽怪氣地說:“那你是能幹呀。要象我這樣,打工幹不動,去實驗室也幹不了,還想過舒服日子,哪不就隻好嫁洋老頭了?”牛惡狠狠地喊:“那是你自己笨,怪不得別人!不過人可以笨死窮死,也不能把自己給賣了!人不能沒有良心!”馬壞笑道:“人家自己混不下去了,卻能賣個好價錢,幹嘛不賣呀?良心值幾個錢呀?要是能賣給什麽教……”李三姐本來裝作沒有聽見,這時覺得這兩個老娘們也太損點,出口叫道:“喂,你們倆,集中精力幹活。少說幾句不行嗎?”

 

楊小靜在旁邊氣得眼淚直在眼眶裏打轉,強忍住才沒有流出來。她真想跳出來對“當牛做馬的”說,她是因為愛情才嫁給吉姆的,根本不是為了攀高枝。不過她也清楚,這兩個人根本不可能相信她。她們笑話她笨,說她是因為自己實在混不下去才嫁老美的,其實根本不是這樣。她端盤子是不如她們,但在實驗室幹得非常好。她想跟她們吵,可是她知道即使再加上十個楊小靜,撒潑罵街也不是人家的對手。況且吉姆還在旁邊,她可不想讓他看到中國人之間內哄,她也做不出牛、馬當年打架那樣的事。她實在是吃不下去,放下了筷子。吉姆見她臉色不好,眼睛裏似乎還有淚水,問她怎麽了,她說沒有什麽,隻有想起了過去的一些事。吉姆輕輕拍拍她的小手以示安慰,然後繼續慢條斯理地享用著自己的美餐,嘴裏還說:“寶貝,這裏的牛肉飯的確很好吃。以後咱們應該經常來這裏吃飯。”

 

楊小靜本來想多給點小費,被“當牛做馬的”一通難聽話,氣得也不想充大頭了,隻給了百分之二十。出門的時候她看也不看牛、馬,隻跟李三姐打了個招呼就走了。李三姐看到吉姆很紳士的替楊小靜推開餐館門,又幫她打開車門,等她坐好後自己才轉過去開車,便對“當牛做馬的”說:“這個教授是真的對羊好。羊肯定也喜歡這樣。”牛和馬還在為鄭衛打抱不平,說:“那個小男孩挺好的,她憑什麽把人家踹了呀?跟著個老頭跑了,虧不虧心呀!我們就是要教訓教訓她。”李三姐看得開些,說:“那個教授跟我差不多大吧,不算老。”牛和馬看到吉姆的卡迪拉克,羨慕得不行。牛蹶著屁股扒在窗前,流著口水說:“這車可真好呀!誰要是送我一輛,我也得跟他跑了。”馬朝著她的屁股就是一巴掌:“就你這個屁股這麽老大,誰要你呀!”牛回過頭去追著打馬:“你的屁股比我的屁股還大呢,更沒有人要!”

 

楊小靜一上車就說:“親愛的,我希望馬上回到實驗室去工作。”吉姆有點吃驚,說:“寶貝,你沒有必要去工作的,我們有足夠的錢用。”楊小靜說:“我不是為了錢,我隻是想工作。你知道,我是閑不下來的。”吉姆想了想,笑著說:“好吧,每個老板都希望招收到能幹的成員,我決定雇你了。”楊小靜抱著吉姆的胳膊撒嬌道:“太謝謝你了,老板。”吉姆也笑了。他沒有看到楊小靜馬上抿緊了嘴唇,他也沒法聽到楊小靜心裏的呐喊:“我一定要幹出一番成績來給你們看一看!我要讓你們明白我是為了愛而結婚的,不是為了錢!我一定要證明我比你們強,強得多!”

 

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jade12345 回複 悄悄話 人生一輩子,兩口子本身情況都會不斷變化。是有人會不斷攀高枝,這樣做是合法的但是不是道德呢? 隻有自己心裏明白,自己不心虛才行,別人怎麽說就不會太在意。前夫在國內是配得上小靜的,到了美國開始不夠好不夠上進了。做妻子的有沒有體諒丈夫實際上也不容易也很苦呢?除了生氣又做了些什麽呢?我不覺得嫁老外是真愛,老美的愛來的快也可能去的也快。小靜應該多花點時間了解一下這個老外,太急地把自己送出去別人是否會珍惜來的太容易的東西?覺得這第二次婚姻基礎不牢。能否持久不看好。這第二次婚姻,小靜怕是撈不著很多錢的。撈個身份也不算虧。小靜和鄭衛都應好好想想,自強自立,有奮鬥就會有收獲,美好的生活掌握在自己手裏,向前看對自己好一點。壞事也能變成好事的,看你如何把握。
錢廣大叔 回複 悄悄話 回複海攀的評論:
哦,我的評論不是針對你.接著往下寫.對作者來說,你的主人公能讓大家關注,有愛有恨,心有所想,不是很好嗎?哈哈.
其實還可以把衝突展開一些,跳出個別真人真事的框框,讓人物更豐滿.
海攀 回複 悄悄話 回複雨中的春樹的評論:

以後也許吧。反正她也不會聽她父母的。

除了她剛出國時提了幾句,後麵就沒有再提她父母了。她已經結婚出嫁了,又遠在萬裏之外,她父母對她的路怎麽走沒有太大影響力了。
海攀 回複 悄悄話 回複BookEater的評論:

那麽告訴你什麽呢?要不這麽說吧:這就是一個奇跡,它就是發生了,信不信由你,反正我信了:)
海攀 回複 悄悄話 回複加州蠟筆小新的評論:

看不太明白。時間久了,大家也許就接受了。
海攀 回複 悄悄話 回複加州蠟筆小新的評論:

這是真的。所以她總想讓鄭衛當教授,可惜鄭衛不好好學。
雨中的春樹 回複 悄悄話 離婚結婚這麽大的事情,楊小靜的父母不可能不知道。楊小靜還沒有很成熟,楊小靜的父母還沒有很老。他們的態度在小說裏應該交代一下。
海攀 回複 悄悄話 回複錢廣大叔的評論:

再婚的女同胞很多,隻不過這個情況比較特殊,所以引起了大家,包括我的關注。
海攀 回複 悄悄話 回複xiaoc288的評論:

她更怕鄭衛。不過,她喜歡自己以前的工作。
海攀 回複 悄悄話 回複拔劍心茫然的評論:

不是人人都願意做騙子的:)
海攀 回複 悄悄話 回複alladin的評論:

沒有多少懸念的,隻是希望大家欣賞過程:)
海攀 回複 悄悄話 回複澀郎的評論:

她們在互相開玩笑。
海攀 回複 悄悄話 回複澀郎的評論:

美國人教授很自負,說過不行的不會反悔。
海攀 回複 悄悄話 回複alladin的評論:

也許是一個好主意。不過下麵的故事很多,還是節奏快一點吧。
BookEater 回複 悄悄話 既然小靜想回實驗室,還是在Jim的庇護之下,靠Jim的施舍過日子,能證明什麽?千萬不要告訴我當地沒有一個Opening,隻有Jim有,或者她隻喜歡實驗室工作。
加州蠟筆小新 回複 悄悄話 And as a Wai F nv, she will never ever going to be able to back to Chinese community.
加州蠟筆小新 回複 悄悄話 雖然應該鼓勵吃苦耐勞。但搞科研又不是掃大街,是個人努努力就行。那樣的話,滿大街都是科學家了。99%的汗水固然重要,但精華是那1%的靈感。楊如果這麽走下去,撐死就一個staff唄。還是半路出家的。
錢廣大叔 回複 悄悄話 不能說找了一個老外再婚就背一大堆罵名,靜其實也是一個很要強的女孩,隻是不喜歡按部就班的"讀書"罷了,接下來她肯定想要擺脫掉花瓶的形象,再進實驗室是她當時唯一的選擇.
其實我們周圍那些再婚對象是同胞的女人,不也很多嗎.
xiaoc288 回複 悄悄話 看到這裏又看出小靜的自私了,她隻在乎自己工作了就能開心了,絲毫不顧及鄭衛的想法,就算要工作也不一定要回到實驗室。
laochen249 回複 悄悄話 回複澀郎的評論:
Buttman now wants to get rid of Wei as well. So a master's is on the table.
拔劍心茫然 回複 悄悄話 還記得“基因皇後”陳曉寧嗎?如果楊曉靜敢幹敢炒作的話,即使在美國是實驗員,也可以到國內炒作成“基因皇後”-- 或許可以由此而“走向成功”。。。
selang2 回複 悄悄話 回複alladin的評論:

Always something behind the weirdness:) Always
alladin 回複 悄悄話 回複alladin的評論:
I just went to creaders.com to read some comments. Now I think I have the clue for the whole story. Hai Da carefully avoids leaking any clue in his replies. If I am not wrong, that explains all the weird adjective words in his novel.
澀郎 回複 悄悄話 Another question:

" 你的屁股比我的屁股還大呢,更沒有人要!" Why did they say that?

Some guys like big butt! Booyah!
澀郎 回複 悄悄話 Here is my gas:

I think Jing might ask Jim to give Zheng a Master degree so he could find a job and leave so it will be less awkward for her to go back to work there again.
alladin 回複 悄悄話 回複海攀的評論:
It may be a good idea to add a transition episode before she made her decision to go back, such as trying or thinking of something else but failed. From the short paragraph I can only see her abrupt emotional decision to show her "nerve of steel" and "invincibility". Earning 30-40K as a lab assistant is not a way of self-fulfillment by any standard since she can make much more after going to college, and as I said before, that's not hard since >50% of F2s doing the same and got at least a M.S. degree (shame on my wife :-) but she tried her best)
海攀 回複 悄悄話 回複悠然南山的評論:

是的,大家都不喜歡這樣。可是這種情況還是不少見。
海攀 回複 悄悄話 回複medicalschool的評論:

大家議論一番,也就過去了,人人都很忙。吉姆說過這有危險,可是他“色膽包天”。至於去告,十有八九不了了之(知道很多例,沒有一個告下來的),而且跟老板就算徹底翻臉了。美國人非常狠,有同學吃過大虧。其他同學凡跟老板鬧翻了的,都是馬上退課,甚至轉學。
海攀 回複 悄悄話 回複澀郎的評論:

Sorry刪了你兩個貼。大家都心平氣和一點,不要說dirty words.
海攀 回複 悄悄話 回複gm07的評論:

以她的資曆,恐怕很難。其實是她更害怕鄭衛,她一直沒有回去工作也是因為這個。
海攀 回複 悄悄話 回複alladin的評論:

她是有很多選擇,可是她喜歡實驗室工作,就回去了。當時就是這樣。
海攀 回複 悄悄話 回複於小芷的評論:

是一個問題。每次copy一下也麻煩。
悠然南山 回複 悄悄話 回複悠然南山的評論:

開夫妻店的都一大堆,更不用說上下級關係了。美國的原則是,不管你用誰,要能出成果,要申請得到錢。

夫妻店夫妻雙方都是老板,他們的薪水由學校定,寒暑假可以從項目中支付相同水平的數額,不影響其他人的利益。夫妻雙方雇傭和被雇傭關係,直接影響到其他雇員公平升職和加薪。
medicalschool 回複 悄悄話 I doubt that Jim will let Jing back to his own lab in real life, working alongside with his student and her ex-husband. Although it is not rare to find husband-wife teams on many medical school campus, or PI marry his (or her, to much less extend) former postdoc, graduate student or technician, it is usually not under the circumstance as described in the novel. Jim married the ex-wife of his own student (current, not former), and had a relationship before their divorce. If Wei makes a big fuss about it, the school is obligated to investigate, at least. Whether Jim will be found any wrong-doing is a different matter, but faculty do talk, or gossip, even if Jim is the chair. In Schools such as Harvard or Yale (I suspect the school described in this novel is Yale), not many tenured faculty give a damn about the dept chair. Jing may not know, but Jim should know better of the consequence. It is very easy for Jim to create a position, especially a tech position, in almost any lab, regardless of whether there is an opening.

I have seen or met many Chinese students, including my own classmates just like Liu Juan or Zheng Wei. Before Jing changed her heart, I admire her being ambitious, considerate and hard-working, considering her background. I am disappointed at the turn of events, but I guess it is dramatic for the novel. I do not think Jing is a vicious person, but selfish, absolutely. Who isn’t? Wei can only blame himself for marrying the wrong person.
澀郎 回複 悄悄話 回複Daniao的評論:
Well. I donot think I am too excited:)

I only speak up the truth and what is on my mind.
Daniao 回複 悄悄話 回複澀郎的評論:
色郎在這個事情上為什麽有點失去理智
gm07 回複 悄悄話 回複海攀的評論:
It looks like that young always consider her own needs in first place even this need is not critical to her again.
If she want to prove her job capabilities, she can try to look for jobs in other schools or companies.


alladin 回複 悄悄話 回複海攀的評論:
My wife is far from as smart as Yang. She's afraid of doing English Presentation and can not get a master's degree. So she first took some courses in community college and then transfered for another B.S. degree,(she has a B.S. home). So what, Yang has tons of choices. WHY doing so! Most of the readers here should have some love experiences and know what a failed love means. I really doubt letting Yang come back is a good idea. As somebody said, this is only a fiction, not a documentary. Why not let Yang do something else and succeed, every one will still admire Yang that way.
alladin 回複 悄悄話 回複laochen249的評論:
Agree no more!!!#$%%%^ If you are an author, you want your readers to be NOT involved. Brilliant! Admire.
海攀 回複 悄悄話 回複滿地陽光的評論:

楊小靜知道別人都是這麽看她的。另外,記不記得吉姆讓她簽婚前協議?有的時候,隻能這樣了,生活不可能是完美的。
於小芷 回複 悄悄話 这地方回複不能引用啊?看海大回複,还得去找原来的评论说的啥。。。
海攀 回複 悄悄話 回複悠然南山的評論:

開夫妻店的都一大堆,更不用說上下級關係了。美國的原則是,不管你用誰,要能出成果,要申請得到錢。
海攀 回複 悄悄話 回複laochen249的評論:

謝謝你順便誇了俺一句:)
海攀 回複 悄悄話 回複gm07的評論:

有很多離婚和再婚的,他們都有各自的經曆,各自的感情。多理解吧。
滿地陽光 回複 悄悄話 楊其實是一個很自私的人,她隻會想到自己會怎麽樣!等老叫獸滿足不了的時候,她還不是一樣找別人!
海攀 回複 悄悄話 回複歡顏展卷林中閑坐的評論:

別人實驗室不一定正好有位置,人家肯不肯要係主任老婆也是一個問題。
滿地陽光 回複 悄悄話 回複fuyun的評論:
我支持澀郎! 如果我是鄭衛,保證讓他們度不了蜜月! 什麽東西!
海攀 回複 悄悄話 回複alladin的評論:

她也就是一般女孩,比李鉈殺那種狠人差得遠:)
海攀 回複 悄悄話 回複alladin007的評論:

每個人都是自私的。楊其實更怕見到鄭,可是她要工作,隻能麵對。
海攀 回複 悄悄話 回複澀郎的評論:

這怎麽罵的跟牛馬似的:)
海攀 回複 悄悄話 回複肥肥的夢想的評論:

她會的。
海攀 回複 悄悄話 回複gewex的評論:

她很有自己的想法。
laochen249 回複 悄悄話 回複悠然南山的評論:
Agreed. But this is a fiction.
海攀 回複 悄悄話 回複葫蘆娃爸爸的評論:

更難受了。
悠然南山 回複 悄悄話 我不認為名校會允許夫妻直接上下級關係,這違背了雇員之間的公平競爭原則。到目前為止我還沒見過,無論是學校或是公司,也許我孤陋寡聞。
laochen249 回複 悄悄話 回複alladin的評論:
Unfortunately, some readers are too involved. That also shows the brilliance of the author.
gm07 回複 悄悄話 Even though Young is a common girl as you mentioned before many times, According to this story Young definitively is a selfish person .
Her marriage with Jim is for love, how about with zheng's? Maybe at different circumstance, she need different love marriage?

alladin 回複 悄悄話 回複fuyun的評論:
Don't be serious like a Nerd. Try learn some humor. This is a world of emotional expression.
歡顏展卷林中閑坐 回複 悄悄話 小靜想證明自己工作能力沒問題,換個實驗室吧。跟前夫天天見麵,太刺激人了。
fuyun 回複 悄悄話 回複澀郎的評論:

澀郎:

After reading many of your posts, I really feel it's shame on you. Sorry, it only shows how low of a person you are, although you think you are so much more ethical than Xiaojing or Jim.

Even if Xiaojing had an affair before the divorce. She doesn't deserve to be killed. I really don't undertand why you are so bitter to another human being, no matter it is a real person or an imaginary figure.

Show some humanity.
澀郎 回複 悄悄話 回複alladin007的評論:
鄭去買把槍,把這對狗男女送西天極樂世界取經去吧!
alladin 回複 悄悄話 I believe Yang may later say something to Zheng and that may be a reason Zheng stand up. But If I were Yang, I SHOULD NOT GO BACK TO THE SAME LAB of Zheng, because the result is unpredictable and can only harm Zheng in most reasonable outcome. But She go back to lab to prove her own capability, of which I have no doubt. But I doult her personality, morality. From the first chapter till now, I do not see any words telling me Yang is a considerate person. NO MATTER WHAT THE OUTCOME IS, THE MOTIVATION OF ALL HER BEHAVIORS IS SELF SATISFACTORY.
alladin007 回複 悄悄話 Yang is not "Hou4 Dao4" in doing this. She hurts Zheng so much and still wants to came back to the Lab to give Zheng a hard time. Even doing so will unexpectedly stimulate Zheng to stand up, but everyone knows this would most likely do no good to Zheng. SHE ALWAYS ONLY considers her OWN NEEDS REGARDLESS OF OTHERS'. The the author tries his best to beautify Yang to balance something, but I guess no success in most readers' mind. If Yang did not marry Zheng's advisor and makes her own big time with her own success, or even meet her new husband after her divorce, this would be a good story. Yang's ambition and her consistent effort toward realizing that is good, but unfortunately, not in the way we all admire. Yang is not doing anything wrong, but she should not be the leading role in a novel from which the author wants to convey some positive merit. If Yang's only a supporting role, this would be reasonable, since as we all aggree Yang is a common girl, no angle, no devel.
VanSmallLandlord 回複 悄悄話 回複澀郎的評論:
one 人參公雞 here
澀郎 回複 悄悄話 什麽東西?給人帶了綠帽,現在又要回去刺激人家!真自私缺德!不得好死!
肥肥的夢想 回複 悄悄話 小靜加油!!
gewex 回複 悄悄話 A strong-willed Jing.
葫蘆娃爸爸 回複 悄悄話 政委要難受了。
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