強烈建議你讀幾本書，會令你茅塞頓開：You are not alone.

"I am not mad, I just hate you" A new understanding of mother-daughter conflict ---by Roni Cohen-Sandler,Ph.D--national bestseller
"Between mother and daughter"  a teenager and her mom share the secrets of a strong relationship ---by Judy Ford and Amanda Ford
"Don't Stop Loving me" A reasuring guide for mothers of adolescent daughters ---by Ann F. Caron
" girl in the mirror" mothers and daughters in the years of adolescence ---by nancy L. Snyderman, M.D. and Peg Streep

以上的書Amozon有評論。 在family counseling 方麵， 母女關係僅次於夫妻關係，是counseling 的一大題材。好好疼愛這一時期的女兒，否則前十三年的疼愛都會打水漂了。 切記。切記。等她再大一點，就懂了。這個時期是母女關係的關鍵期，千萬把握好。