爹媽探子

爹媽探子

到兒子們住的地方附近去玩，再去看看兒子們。他們要工作，沒法跟著我們玩，再說大了他們想玩自己玩去就是了不用來陪我們。

臨走前問兒子們要帶什麽。兒子說。。。

想吃家裏的餃子。。

於是趕緊去華人超市買了白菜蘑菇還有蘸餃子的汁。

大老遠地去了到他們住的新蓋的公寓一看，還不小也合用，是典型的理工男大學生宿舍的樣子，亂糟糟的堆了電腦和電子器件和做模型飛機的東西。哎，還是孩子。。

剁白菜剁蘑菇剁蔥剁蒜;
揉麵擀麵包餃子煮餃子;
吃餃子收餃子洗鍋洗碗。。。

做了很多他們收起來還能吃幾天。

仔細看看兒子們，似乎又長高了，也強壯了。把小兒子的手抓住握了握，幹了一個月體力活，手掌變厚了，臉色也好，胳膊上貼了個創可貼，說是在超市烤蛋糕不小心燙的。。

跟大兒子交代兩件事，一個是別把當預備兵隻是做一個掙點小錢的半時工，而是當做一個可以終生受益的鍛煉的機會。一個是去集訓，比較苦，都是年輕人，容易發生些浪漫的事，這本身並沒什麽不好，但是自己要當心，因為去當兵的下層人家比較多，教養和家庭觀念和我們有很大的不同，隻是在這個特殊環境下容易搞到一起。看人要看本質能有長期的穩定家庭關係的。如果能找到這樣的當然更好我也希望你能盡早碰上。還有集訓完了並不是終點以後回來工作之餘繼續按這條路一級一級地升。

最後拍了一下他的肩膀，說我等著那一天我會來給你肩上戴上軍官軍階。這是軍隊的傳統也是做父母的特權。。

吃完飯我們去住酒店，兒子把我們車上媽媽自己設計縫的汽車皮椅子套打土豪扒走了裝自己新車上了。。我們回去再做一個就是了。。

[菲兒天地]

讚好文。

[Jingle-Bell]

時不時來你家看看，學很多教育孩子的觀點。感謝波大分享！

[elfie]

Not many people are having romance during Basic training. It's too busy to do all that. And if someone actually have sex, they would be dismissed. Men and women are separated in different barracks so if things like that happens, it's a big disciplinary problem. When I was at basic training about 20 years ago, one guy snuck into the women's barracks and had sex with a girl. I don't know how he managed to do that because we were very busy all day and there were usually many people in one room. His nickname is Special K and he was especially naughty. Of course he was disciplined. Also, you're a bit too condescending to the others. There's no upper class in the Army, everyone is treated the same as new recruits and as soldiers. I can only shake my head how you misunderstand the U.S military. Your family background and your college degrees mean nothing in the military. It's all about being tough physically and mentally. The Army doesn't care how well you are raised, and it doesn't give you an edge. You have to work very hard to prove yourself from the very first day till the last.