愛上了他2 － 愛情是贏來的！趕緊想想憑自己什麽能贏來愛情

這是接上麵的1的一個回答。跨壇的一位姑娘說她看到他就緊張地幾乎不能呼吸，俺給她寫了下麵的話:

If U can't breathe in front of him, he probably has known your crush on him. He did not make any moves further, that only means he is not interested (enough) in you yet.

To make him interested, you need to make positive impressions to him. If you feel low in front of him, then you will never make a positive impression in person. Is there any other way to make a positive impression?

Later (no need now as I think he is not interested enough now) when you wanna know if he is interested, when he asks you what you will do on weekend, just say "I am going to see movie ABC" or "I am going dancing" or some other activities. If he is interested he will ask if you are going alone. Otherwise, he is not. You need to "blah blah" in a way to leave room for him to show interest.

其實就一句話，想讓別人愛自己，必須用自己的優點去贏來愛情。尤其讓他覺得好棒的優點，也就是在他感興趣的事情上的優點。當然最好你自己也感興趣，要不有點虧待自己了。

兩個人在一起興趣相投，當然能走得更遠。

你還記得施勝傑的一個相聲，叫“愛優點”嗎？ 人都愛優點，愛優秀。

愛情是贏來的！