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(2009-12-05 22:12:27)
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(2009-08-29 10:23:19)
OK...Weallhadtodealwithjealousyatworkandthisoneisnoexception.However,italsosoundsasifyouhaveadoublechallengeinthisinstanceindealingwithyourbossaswell.
Yourfirsttaskmustbetoextricate(release)yourselffrombeingonthedefensiveallthetime.Youaresoundinglikesomeonewhoisconstantlyhavingtojustifyyouractions.Stopdoingthat.Youhavenothingtojustify.Youareinyourpositiononmeritandbyright,sokeepthosethoughts...[閱讀全文]
Yourfirsttaskmustbetoextricate(release)yourselffrombeingonthedefensiveallthetime.Youaresoundinglikesomeonewhoisconstantlyhavingtojustifyyouractions.Stopdoingthat.Youhavenothingtojustify.Youareinyourpositiononmeritandbyright,sokeepthosethoughts...[閱讀全文]
(2009-08-29 09:23:28)
IamnotsurehowtocategorizewhatIamexperiencing.Ihavebeenwithmycurrentcompanyforalmosttwoyears.Thecompanyhiredmeforanewpositionthatwasnotevenopenedyetbutofferedmeatemporaryjobinanentrylevelareatobegin(ifIwanted)untilthenewjobwasready.Itooktheentryleveljobjusttogetmyfeetwetandacclimatedagaintotheindustry.
Iwasthereforsixmonth-gotthepromotion-andthenstartedthenewjob.Fromdayone,Ihavemetwithconstan...[閱讀全文]
Iwasthereforsixmonth-gotthepromotion-andthenstartedthenewjob.Fromdayone,Ihavemetwithconstan...[閱讀全文]
(2009-08-27 21:16:49)
Youwillfindthatthisisacommonplacebehaviorinmanyorganizations,sodon'tbetoodisheartened.Yourcolleagueisoneofmanywhorelishtheprospectofauthoritywithouttheresponsibility.Itisbehaviormostoftendisplayedbythosewhohavebeenpassedoverforapromotionforwhateverreason,andstemsfromtheresentmentandfrustrationtheyfeel.
Ontheotherhand,oftenthosepeoplehaveahistoryofservicewiththeirrespectiveorganizationsandpos...[閱讀全文]
Ontheotherhand,oftenthosepeoplehaveahistoryofservicewiththeirrespectiveorganizationsandpos...[閱讀全文]
(2009-08-27 21:05:45)
Irecentlytookamanagementposition.Ihaveaco-workerwhobadmouthedthepreviouspersoninmypositionandsheissayingthesamethingaboutme.
Ifoundthatinthepastshewantedmypositionbutpasseditupbecauseotherco-workersconvincedherthatshewouldnotlikeit.ShesaysthatIammakingmoreerrorsalthoughthoseinchargeofmonitoringerrors,haven'tnoticedadifference.
Myconcernisthatnobodyisperfectanderrorswilloccur.Ifshesolelyc...[閱讀全文]
Ifoundthatinthepastshewantedmypositionbutpasseditupbecauseotherco-workersconvincedherthatshewouldnotlikeit.ShesaysthatIammakingmoreerrorsalthoughthoseinchargeofmonitoringerrors,haven'tnoticedadifference.
Myconcernisthatnobodyisperfectanderrorswilloccur.Ifshesolelyc...[閱讀全文]
(2009-08-24 19:43:58)
Leadershipisscarcebecausefewpeoplearewillingtogothroughthediscomfortrequiredtolead.
Thescarcitymakesleadershipvaluable.
Ifeveryonetriestoleadallthetime,notmuchhappens.
It’sdiscomfortthatcreatestheleveragethatmakesleadershipworthwhile.Inotherwords,ifeveryonecoulddoit,theywould,anditwouldn’tbeworthmuch.
It’suncomfortabletostandupinfrontofstrangers.
It’suncomfortableto...[閱讀全文]
Thescarcitymakesleadershipvaluable.
Ifeveryonetriestoleadallthetime,notmuchhappens.
It’sdiscomfortthatcreatestheleveragethatmakesleadershipworthwhile.Inotherwords,ifeveryonecoulddoit,theywould,anditwouldn’tbeworthmuch.
It’suncomfortabletostandupinfrontofstrangers.
It’suncomfortableto...[閱讀全文]
(2009-08-24 19:27:15)
Youwillneverfindpeaceofmindbyallowingotherpeopletoliveyourlifeforyou.
Themostprofoundfactconcerninghumanityisthis:TheCreatorgaveusthecomplete,unchallengeablerightofprerogativeoveronething,andonlyonething-ourownmind.Itmusthavebeenthecreator'spurposetoencourageustoliveourownlife,tothinkourownthoughtswithoutinterferencefromothers.Otherwisewewillnothavebeenprovidedwithsuchacleardominionoverourmi...[閱讀全文]
Themostprofoundfactconcerninghumanityisthis:TheCreatorgaveusthecomplete,unchallengeablerightofprerogativeoveronething,andonlyonething-ourownmind.Itmusthavebeenthecreator'spurposetoencourageustoliveourownlife,tothinkourownthoughtswithoutinterferencefromothers.Otherwisewewillnothavebeenprovidedwithsuchacleardominionoverourmi...[閱讀全文]
(2009-08-24 08:47:12)
禮節美語：FindingtheApproachablePeopleattheBusiness/SocialFunction（英語聽力）ZT
陳豪在北京的ABC美國公司工作。他下班後跟美國同事Amy一起去參加應酬。
(Officeambience)C：謝謝你陪我來，Amy,每次公司有這種應酬，我都特別不自在。
A：Whynot?Theyareusuallyupscaleeventsheldinattractiveplaceswithgoodfood.
C：吃的倒是不錯，可我不習慣跟陌生人接觸。
A：That'soneofthereasonswego,tomeeto...[閱讀全文]
陳豪在北京的ABC美國公司工作。他下班後跟美國同事Amy一起去參加應酬。
(Officeambience)C：謝謝你陪我來，Amy,每次公司有這種應酬，我都特別不自在。
A：Whynot?Theyareusuallyupscaleeventsheldinattractiveplaceswithgoodfood.
C：吃的倒是不錯，可我不習慣跟陌生人接觸。
A：That'soneofthereasonswego,tomeeto...[閱讀全文]
(2009-08-23 09:34:14)
Iamsurprisedatyou.You-theexpertatengineeringchangeculturesinsideorganizationsoveraperiodofmanyyears.YouhaveastutelyassessedMr.Bonoonanumberoflevels,andyet,youhavesingularlyfailedtospottheoneaspectinMr.Bono'spattenofbehavior,whichshouldhaveshapedthewayyoudealtwithhim.
Mr.Bonoisfeelingveryvulnerable,andasaconsequence,heisfeelingthreatenedbyanythingthatexacerbatesandexposesthatvulnerability.閱讀全文]
Mr.Bonoisfeelingveryvulnerable,andasaconsequence,heisfeelingthreatenedbyanythingthatexacerbatesandexposesthatvulnerability.
(2009-08-23 07:59:57)
IhaveadreamjobthatIalwaysaspiredtoandIhaveworkedforthepasteightyearsofmycareerlifetogetit.NotonlydoIhavemydreamrole,butmydepartmentheadisthebestmentoranyonecouldwishfor-really,nosarcasmintended.
Oneofthereasonstobringmeinwastointroducenewwaysofdoingthings,especiallyatthetopandmiddlelayers.Butnow,after10monthsIstartedthejob,Istillhaveproblemswithanotherseniormanagerwhodoesnotseemto(orwantto)a...[閱讀全文]
Oneofthereasonstobringmeinwastointroducenewwaysofdoingthings,especiallyatthetopandmiddlelayers.Butnow,after10monthsIstartedthejob,Istillhaveproblemswithanotherseniormanagerwhodoesnotseemto(orwantto)a...[閱讀全文]
