天命
五十而知天命, 君子不與命爭.
什麽是命? “命” 就是所有一切你不能控製, 不能通過努力去改變的東西. 命是在你出生之時已經確定的東西. 命決定了你一生不可逾越的界限. 命就是一個人的化身, 他的才氣,力氣, 勇氣, 運氣, ……
命與生而來, 追隨你, 陪伴你, 支持你, 限製你. 不管你喜歡, 還是討厭, 你必須和它綁在一起, 終其一生.
人的一生總是在 “認命” 和 “與命抗爭” “不信命” 兩個端點上跳躍. “認命” 就得屈服於現實, 過一個平庸而安靜的生活. “不認命” 就要奮鬥, 碰得頭破血流之後, 不得不向命屈服, 回到認命這邊來. 養精蓄銳, 一旦氣力恢複, 便又不甘於認命, 又跳起來不信命, 與命爭了.
Fate
By reaching 50, you should be able to understand what is “Fate”, A wise one has no more fighting with “Fate”.
What is “Fate”? “Fate” is the summary of all the uncontrollable things, all the predefined, cannot be changed by efforts. “Fate” is determined at your birth. It defines the boundary of your entire life. “Fate” is a total image of you, it is composed by your talent, strength, courage, chance, and so on … …
“Fate” came along with your birth, follow you, company you, support you, confine you. Regardless you like or not, you are deadly bounded with it all your life.
Along our life, we all bounce between belief and rebel of “Fate”. Believe, you must submit yourself to the surroundings, have a dull but peaceful life; Don’t believe, you will put in all your effort to fight for better, after wounded, bleeding, you must surrender to “Fate”, back to the side of believe, rest and refurbish, as recovered, you will jump up, back to fighting with “Fate”, claim strength against it.
Such as one issue after the other one, one year after the other year, as reaching 50, passed 50, finally be shaped round, finally got matured and gain wisdom, become stop fighting, understand the power of “Fate”. Afterwards, life has more peace, more pounder, more recall of memory, more wisdom. Simply to say it is enjoying maturity, furthermore, is colorful sunset glow all over the horizon.
多謝多謝,不敢當。
多謝誇獎,實不敢當。
吾當常來拜讀。