從Los Gatos的謀殺案說起， 我們必須要保護好自己的

https://www.mercurynews.com/2024/01/16/los-gatos-man-charged-with-strangling-wife-dumping-body-in-santa-cruz-mountains/

"In footage from about 9:35 p.m. that night, the victim could be seen running out of her home and yelling for help, with Yeager chasing and catching up to her, according to police. The two went out of view of the neighbor’s security camera, and reappeared with the victim walking away from Yeager, who then grabbed her by her shoulders.

The affidavit states that the video showed Yeager physically guiding her back to their home, with the victim repeatedly asking Yeager if he was “taking me back so you can beat me to death?” Yeager is later seen physically blocking the victim's  path to a parked car, followed by both people going back inside.  "

那個被殺的妻子真是不會保護自己。  她都跑出來了， 還被他抓回去， 還這麽卑微地問 “taking me back so you can beat me to death?”   就是說在女方逃出家門前他已經打過她了， 而且還打得不輕。   她應該立刻報警， 如果沒有手機， 就去求助鄰居。 無論怎樣， 就是不能讓他再抓回去。

大約十一， 二年前， 我們這個縣也發生過一起白男殺害華人妻子的案件.  女方是北京人， 有個CS的碩士學位的， 因為要照顧年幼的兒子， 她一直當家庭主婦。 她的丈夫也是長期有暴力傾向， 妻子常向一個美國女友訴說， 女友勸她離開， 她為了孩子有一個完整的家不舍得離開。 這些我都是從華盛頓郵報報道看來得。

遇到有暴力傾向的配偶， 男友， 我們都必須保護好自己的

Note： 我這個帖子是前晚寫的， 當時很多中文報道還沒有登出， 所以我就轉了英文報道