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(2011-04-01 15:01:31)
TodayIwatchedtheTVseriesJiangAiQingJingXingDaoDi,andremembermylifeyearsago,IwanttothankJMforexperienceanimportantpartofmyyounglife,Ishouldbethankfulforthat.Ourrelationshipandyinyuanendedbutthegoodpartwassweetatthattime,andIamgratefulforthatandIamhappyformyselfthatIdidnotleavemylovelifeblank.[閱讀全文]
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(2011-04-01 09:12:13)
IwatchedLYPandWF'sinterviewwithYanLan,oneofwordshesaidreallyimpressedme,"Weacceptothers'prejudice,notdoitreluctantly,butdoitwithanopenheart".Thismakeshimaveryattractiveperson.Istillcannotdothatyet.
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1.Icannotbetooneedy-clingy,evenifIamreallytired,andIreallyneedalotoflove,Icannotsayitinademandingway.Icanonlycommunicatemyneedinastable,calmway.Ifmypartnerdoesnotgetthemessage,thenjustforgetaboutit.Ifhekeepsignoringmyneed,Ihavethechoicetoleave,evenifitisahardchoice,itisahardchoiceIneedtomakesoonerorlater,maybesoonerisbetter. 



2.Icannotdependmyhappinessonotherpeople,ifotherp...[閱讀全文]
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(2009-09-26 18:11:11)
我兩次生孩子都有憂鬱症,尤其是第二次。我覺得現在已經基本上擺脫了它的束縛。雖然還是說不上有多快樂,但是至少能夠基本應付日常生活了。
我的經驗是在物質和精神兩方麵都需要進行改變。
在物質上,它事實上是頭腦有實質病變,可能是某些neuraltransmitter不平衡。我從這兩本書得益很多。Dr.DanielG.Amen,Howtomakeagoodbraingreat,andchangeyourbrain,changeyourlife“,他從物質和精[閱讀全文]
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Afterreadingbiochemicalsciencehereandthereandsomepsycologybooks,Istarttothinkthereisabiochemicalbaseforpeople'spersonality.Afterthefirstgoogletry,Iactuallyfindsomethingwiththeexactname"BiochemicalPersonality".Theyarerelatedtodrugoralcoholabuse.
http://www.narcononrehab.com/english/Narconon_Program.htmlLong-termalcoholismanddrugaddictioncancauseone'spersonalitytochange.ThisiscalledtheBiochemica...[閱讀全文]
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(2008-05-08 20:04:59)

Iamnotintherightmoodtowritesomethingtonight,Ijustcopyheresomethingthatoncegavemesomeinspiration.
Asmentionedbysomeofthereviewers"ithinkthatanygirlthatthinksshe'snotgoodenoughshouldlistentothisanditwilldefinatelyboostherselfesteemandconfidence..."Iamespeciallymovedbythesentencethat"You'rebeautifulthewayyouare".Iwishtosay"youaregoodthewayyouare".Ihavebeingtryin...[閱讀全文]
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(2008-05-07 20:30:06)
Ittakestimeformetoslowlyunderstandthesociety.Oneofthemostimportantpartofittome,istherelationshipbetweenmanandwoman.
Myearliesteducationonrelationshipstartedaroundage12whenIenteredJuniorHighschool.IrememberthefirstbookIreadwithtwomaincharactersatmatureageisastorycalled"Thesongofyouth".Theheroineinthenovelisaverystrongwomanwhotookonabigcareerofrevolution.Sheisastrongerpersonthanherfirs...[閱讀全文]
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(2008-05-07 19:56:39)
Thereisafamoussayingthat“ifyouaremarriedtoagoodwife,youwillhaveahappylife,ifyouaremarriedtoabadwife,youwillbecomeaphilosopher”.Sinceancienttimes,mainlymenhavetherightofspeech,thatiswhythesayingisexpressedassuch.Whataboutthewife’sfeeling?Therehasnotbeenafemalephilosopheryet,becauseallmenthinkwomenareirrational.SinceIcarryatitleof“DoctorofPhilosophy”,andmymarriagehasbeenquiterough,Iamtryingtobe...[閱讀全文]
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