關於中國和美國的比較,一個發人深思的現象(二)

楊爺爺娶了比他年輕幾十歲的楊奶奶，遭到了國人的唇槍舌劍，口誅筆伐。Hugh Hefner, 花花公子雜誌的創始人，和楊爺爺同齡，現在(同時)有三個girlfriends(以前有過更多), and the four of them live together. There is this TV show about their real lives called "The Girls Next Door"... hot hot, oh yeah... Seems like Americans agrees pretty well with, at least they are not against this type of life style, and I've never seen any Chinese people accusing him the same way they accuse Professor Yang.It's great to self-critisize, but are we being too relentless on ourselves while too lenient on others?