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今天隨便寫的,大家也就隨便看看。
多年以前看過一篇文章,說的是癌症是上帝的恩賜,是對人類的仁慈。我當年自然不接受,這完全是昏話麽。
但是,老父駕鶴時我立刻明白了這個道理。老父從心髒病發作到送到急診室,前後3個小時,然後就告別了。這中間的所有準備工作是零。
老母那時候確診肺癌四期。從那時到離世,一年三個月。這期間大家都做好了心理準備,老母也看著兩個孫子一個孫女這段時間的成長。終末期,醫生問我們子女要什麽樣的救治,所有人都意見一致,不做任何創傷性救治,止疼藥管夠。這樣老母安然離世。
要說我有什麽遺憾,就是老母不應該做化療。做與不做,沒有任何延續生命的區別。做了化療,反而要受感染之苦,何必呢?最後40天因為心髒衰竭而不能下床,其實沒必要。
我不信教也不信神,但是這些時候真的希望有靈魂有平行空間,那樣的話,有輪回,就有新生。這樣看來,死亡就是那麽回事,不過是脫去一個渾身是傷病的皮囊換個新的。
今天保守派大咖Rush Limbaugh 去世,讓人唏噓。但是如果有天堂,那麽在天堂和上帝邊上多一個正直的人,也沒什麽不好。
要說我個人對生死有什麽看法,我覺得某個網友的話是經典。人的出生是偶然,死亡是必然。我離偶然越來越遠,離必然越來越近,就是這個過程。如果有什麽奢求的話,那就是如果能夠,我希望第一不得老年癡呆,第二不得中風啥的導致癱瘓的疾病。如果某一天醫生宣告絕症,那麽我的選擇也是明確的,就是沒必要進行無意義的治療。除此之外,就是每天出行開車小心謹慎,這個是我自己能控製的。
人生就是個過程,珍惜每一個瞬間。
人生不需勉強。不怕死,不找死。活著的每一天都吃香喝辣,賞心悅目。
美國得了癌症,我們都有機會見證與告別。。。
Rush Limbaugh 是正值的人?他講的好多東西您不覺毛骨悚然?
我一個曾經的同事獨自帶幾歲的小男孩,患癌症晚期,她該怎樣和孩子一起感恩癌症的慈仁?
I used to listen to a lot of radio while I was working, I remembered I always put two hours commune for the majority of my jobs, Rush is one of my favorites in the early 90s. While definitely his tenure at ESPN, he made blatant racist comments pertaining black athlecs, especially McCanab, was racist. I thought it was over the line at the time.
But still, why do people like 27 to 39 million Americans routinely come back to listen to him? liberals are saying those are truck drivers in the middle of America - it is equivalent of saying they are deplorables, and by the way, based on Statista: only 947K truck drivers out there in the US.
There is no doubt Rush is not perfect, maybe even flawed at times, but who does not? Not bad for a guy who does not have college education and makes about 100 million per year just talking on the radio.