經曆了一些事,發現前人所言極是,經驗的積累,金玉良言啊。一些是切身體會,一些用以自勉。還要用以教育女兒,以後少走彎路。 :)
害人之心不可有,防人之心不可無。
路遙知馬力,日久見人心。
若要人不知,除非己莫為。
幾所不欲,勿施與人。
從善如登,從惡如崩。
物以類聚,人以群分。
塞翁失馬,焉知非福。
君子愛人以德,細人愛人以姑息。(君子愛人是成全別人的美德操守,小人愛人是無原則的姑息遷就?)
What's done cannot be undone. (覆水難收?故此要三思後行)
Character is what you are in the dark. (暗處最能反應人的品格? 故此要慎獨)
Curses come home to roost. (害人終會害己)
Grasp all, lose all. (貪多必失)
Time tries all. (時間檢驗一切)
A leopard cannot change his spots. (本性難移)
We know not what is good until we have lost it. (失去之後方覺珍貴)
Tomorrow is another day.
To forgive our enemies is a charming way of revenge. (寬恕是最好的報複?)
Heaven helps those who help themselves. (天助自助者)
The stupid neither forgive nor forget; the naive forgive and forget; the wise forgive but do not forget. (正在努力爭取做個聰明人。。。)
Nothing is easier than to deceive one's self. (Demothenes) (再沒有什麽比自欺更容易了)
Love all, trust a few. (William Shakespeare)
Never regret. If it's good, it's wonderful. If it's bad, it's experience. (Victoria Holt)
Never tell the truth to those who are not worthy of it. (Mark Twain)
There is, however, a limit at which forbearance ceases to be a virtue. (E Burke) (克製也有個限度,超過限度便不再是美德)
看到一個黃色的,現在還不能跟女兒討論,為時過早,我等等等,等個10年吧。:)))
God gave us a pxxxx and a brain but not enough blood to use both at the same time. (Robin Williams 說的,男人寫照?)