我十五歲的兒子來德國讀書是好事嗎？

　　　　兒子剛讀完初二．剛上小學變為單親家庭子女．曆年數學科學等成績優秀，也熱愛曆史地理，語文中等，英語會說不少但會寫的很少所以考試成績很爛．上重點高中沒有希望．上初中以後，因為我出國了，他跟老爸，老爸與後媽半年後就去了別的城市，他就跟著奶奶．平時上課倒從沒有荒廢，課後馬馬虎虎完成作業就拒絕學習．周末就喜歡打通宵電腦．我在德國建立了新家，對方是一個人蠻不錯的，　工薪階層的德國人．我自己的德國的生活漸漸穩定．　兒子是我的心頭肉，　我希望能自己看著他成長．　但不知道來德國對他的前途與心裏發展是否裏大於弊．　他出來了就沒有回頭路了．　我內心有點焦慮．　先生說他會權利協助的，但他平時都在上班也很忙．　兒子又處在叛逆期，對寬鬆的老爸比較沒有怨言，對羅嗦的老媽我總有很多意見．　該怎麽辦才好呢？　　　

[deflc]

如果你的家庭穩定,比較和諧,還是將孩子接出來,不要怕孩子的叛涅心,關鍵是慢慢讓孩子走出單親家庭對他關心少的影子,在國外也能培養孩子自己的興趣,同時也讓他能學習公平的對待別人.

[jaydad]

sorry, missing part of the comment """ problem"
if he is younger, say less than 10, move him out of china to get wholly germinzed;
if he is older, say 20 or above, get him to europe or america to be globalized;
for right now, at the heat of his 叛逆期, i suggest you wait a little bit. Now it is a concern that he has neither dad or mom by his side - i guess you or your ex just have to deal with that, with remote control.
best wish

[jaydad]

if he is younger, say 20, get him to europe or america to be globalized;
for right now, at the heat of his 叛逆期, i suggest you wait a little bit. Now it is a concern that he has neither dad or mom by his side - i guess you or your ex just have to deal with that, with remote control.
best wish