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我從母親的角度看佩林

(2008-09-03 09:45:19) 下一個
老麥剛選出佩林時,我還真挺高興的,雖說對她一無所知,有美女看誰不喜歡。再說她還年輕,和老麥互補一下,還算振奮。她的ideology我倒無所謂,老麥肯定選個極右的,政治嘛,總是這樣。

後來聽說她是五個孩子的媽媽,更佩服了,估計她是AP說的那種energy level特高的人,俺對這樣的人比較飯,像Angelina Jolie。

後來看到報道,她小兒子出生三天就去上班了,心裏有點不是滋味。生過孩子的都知道,那時荷爾蒙還波動呢,工作起來情緒會不穩,何況寶寶又是唐氏,總需要多一點精力吧。美國又不提倡焦裕祿精神,至於這麽奉獻麽。

再聽說她女兒懷孕的事,感情更複雜了。且不說這是否她有責任,畢竟現在的teenager,不好管。我想的是如果她早知道這件事,卻毫不猶豫地接受提名,不免有點自私,她不會不知道被提名全家都會接受媒體的考驗,每個針尖大的事都要被放在放大鏡下,把女兒置身於這樣的attention下麵,不知道作為母親是怎麽想的。對比看看克林頓布什對女兒們的保護,不能不說她很失策。

所以作為一個母親,我不會飯她。

話說回來,也許正因如此,我不是政客的料。


PS: 這幾天關於佩林的口水很多,知福惜福網友的觀點有一定代表性。她這麽說:

想問下這裏的媽媽爸爸們.你們真的以為你小孩以後長大後會給你一樣的黨派,相信一樣的主義,
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觀點政解都給你們一樣嗎?
如果答案是肯定的話.我就沒有問題了.
如果答案是NO的話.我就想再問一下. 你們批評PALIN的女兒未婚先孕,是對她信奉的東西是相反的,從而結論PALIN是不合格的VP人選. 難道她女兒就非的給她媽媽相信的東西一樣才證明這個媽媽是成功的媽媽嗎?
媽媽推行的東西,就非要女兒也要照這個樣子培養成功才證明是正確的嗎?
我覺得這裏很多人都把自己的子女當成了延伸,其實很多美國卻把子女當成一個獨立的個體.所以他們才不會有這種想法的. 也正是PALIN敢於把自己大腹便便的17歲女兒拉到台上,正大光明的甚至於自豪的站那裏.
我的對於那些用她女兒懷孕來攻擊批評她的一點點感受.

我的回答:

佩林是政客,她的想法不僅影響自家,也影響別家。她減少了很多sex ed 的資金,增加了很多abstinence only education的資金,那納稅人就有權問一下,效果如何?從她自家看,效果8好,那她的政策是否應該被evaluate。

如果她宣稱青少年懷孕無罪,俺們奏是很驕傲女兒這樣,作為普通人,木人會說啥,一家有一家的活法。

這個和子女是否是父母的延伸木有關係

再說,老美對Minor的保護意識一點8比老中差。Bill OReily 曾經強烈抨擊BritneySpears的父母,說他們教女無方,JamieLynn十七歲懷孕。

咳,真累,8再說介個了。 俺對此不再評價。

謝謝各位留言,就不一一回了。

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yulaner 回複 悄悄話 回複laojie的評論:

請不要用“吃裏扒外”這種insult別人的字眼, 有理的人是不需用這類字眼的。 凡是用的全回歸用者本人。

實在忍不住說一句, Red Neck 是隨便用的嗎? 看到主流媒體上用去試試。
laojie 回複 悄悄話 回複yulaner的評論:
克林頓讓你窮了嗎?讓大家窮的是裏根和小布什。不懂為甚麽有人這麽吃裏扒外。
yulaner 回複 悄悄話 回複Bulebarry的評論:
Governer Palin 是一個值得尊敬的優秀女性, 不比稀拉利差, 同樣Dedicate,還更務實,看看 華爾街日報:猜猜美國女性怎麽看佩琳

http://news.creaders.net/headline/newsViewer.php?nid=356910&id=829533&dcid=26
yulaner 回複 悄悄話 回複laojie的評論:

若是擔心退休金, 那民主黨上台更完蛋了。 全花到懶人、非裔身上去了。 忘了不幾年前加州“Warefare” 搞得債台高築頻臨破產, 民主黨州長被迫宣布下台, 現任共和黨州長上台至今嗎?說到伊戰, 民主黨當初不也積極支持嗎? 稀拉利雙收支持,共和黨成了替罪羊。 說白了, 也隻有McCain可以收拾殘局。 奧的Exit Plan 根本不可行, 等他混上了台, 還是老樣子...
laojie 回複 悄悄話 回複注冊了吧的評論:
做的臭,還怕人講?這頂帽子正和適你的女英雄。共和黨人是下三爛招。佩林為甚麽躲著紀者?不是把漏陷是甚麽?她的演講稿是布什人寫的。她做個演講演員。除了罵人,說謊,說了甚麽正經的事了?
甚麽年頭了,鐵杆反墮胎,反性教育。下崽不短。。。 這不是個red neck 還是個甚麽?
red neck也不打緊。嘿。自個和自個家人沒法管教,倒打出American family value的旗號。這連正經的red neck又少了層誠實。
算了吧,你在這看不慣我不打緊,小心你的退休金,你兒女的前途。咱們美利堅大帝國的未來。共和黨在上台,大家一起完蛋。
laojie 回複 悄悄話 回複Bulebarry的評論:
你以為佩林沒吸過毒嗎?哈哈,她還很自以為豪哪。
Bulebarry 回複 悄悄話 我認為Palin 是個非常優秀的女人,聰明,美麗, 有魄力。要是說因為她的女兒影響你的孩子的。試問你又放心一個吸過毒的 Obama做你孩子的總統? Palin是running副總統,可Obama是running總統。
laojie 回複 悄悄話 回複Styx的評論:
Any woman with a right mind will not knowling give birth to a mentally challenged son. Talking about sleeping around, who is the hypocrite here? Your heroin! Believing in god, but got preganent before marriage anyway (your heroin herself). Against sex education, so got her daughter preganent. And don't let your imagination carry you away, I was not even talking about sleeping around although it is none of your business if anybody does sleep around. You want to make it unlawful?

No need to worry about my English vocabulary, I know exactly what I am refeering to. A piece of junk can be on the shelf in Wal-Mart, but also can be found in Neiman Marcus. The only difference is in the price. Americans would pay a big price if McCain-Palin ticket is elected.

Shame on the Repblican party to put her there.

Styx 回複 悄悄話 回複laojie的評論:

"She is a red neck, a white trash. She is anti-woman rights, anti-evolution, a religous nut."

真有氣勢啊,一上來就扣這麽多頂帽子。我懷疑你到底知不知道這些英文字的定義?what is woman rights you are referring to? freedom of sleeping around and getting rid of the babies if there is any accident? If you are a woman, feel sorry for you! if you are a man, you don't have the right to talk about woman rights and attack a mother/wife/sucessful professional woman like this!

"Before she went to TX for a political speech, her water (the retarded son) broke. But she got herself on the plane anyway instead of going to a hospital. After speech, she flew back instead of going to a hospital; the plane stoped in Seattle, she continues to travel to Alaska instead of going to a hospital; when landed a city in Alaska, she drove for another 45 minutes instead of going to a hospital. Finally, the son was born in a small twon. Isn't this strange? Isn't this woman crazy? "

You are not at the place to judge if she is crazy or not. She probably knows much better how her physical condition is than you and reporters do. This is an tough woman, an athelet, I feel pretty impressed that she handled it with so much strength and calmness.

"The worst is not her craziness in her personal life. She once was associated with Alaska independent party. She always put Alaska before US."

I don't know much about the party and if her association with the party or real Alaska independent activity is right. But just to give a little bit education on US constitution. When the "united states" were founded and the constitution was established, there was always the underline assumption that the States is "before" federal government, and states hold all the rights that are not delegated to federal government and congress. If you don't believe in me, go back to read the Constitue.


"Ultimately, she is just being herself, it is McCain who sold out his soul (if he has one) and principles (if he use to have). I do not believe he and she will do anything differently than Bush (even if they want to). And I certainly do not want to see the country continuing in the wrong direction for another 4 years."

McCain+Palin is a stronger "reform' ticket than Obama/Biden's "changes' ticket.
ncpga 回複 悄悄話 I think Palin is perfect, by comparing to other candidates!
chaojiang 回複 悄悄話 我也正為這事想不通呢! 哎,手裏的選票還真不知道投給誰.
lianggeren 回複 悄悄話 是啊,保守人士比如那誰誰誰,一向反對未婚先孕的,但保守的共和黨選了佩林作總統候選人,這一切就都不成問題了。佩林說了,未婚先孕不能墮胎,甚至強奸亂倫懷孕也不能墮胎,她到真是身體力行了。問題是,如果她有了權力。。。

看她的演講,覺得像個笑話,用了20分鍾介紹自己的家人,抱著她的don syndrom的兒子到處走,然後說,別騷擾我的家人。。。,女人瘋狂起來。。。
moonwalker123 回複 悄悄話 We surely do not want someone who treat Alaska to US like Tibet to China.

I think McCain was blind when chose her. Did not dislike McCain before, but now I think I'm leaning towards Obama, though do not like him either, but I think I'm less dislike Obama's team.
templa 回複 悄悄話 Laojie's definition of "white trash" is just the opposite, I think.
aaa 回複 悄悄話 Laojie is retarted b-.
知否 回複 悄悄話 Support!
laojie 回複 悄悄話 She is a red neck, a white trash. She is anti-woman rights, anti-evolution, a religous nut. She and MaCain would drag US into a dark age.

Before she went to TX for a political speech, her water (the retarded son) broke. But she got herself on the plane anyway instead of going to a hospital. After speech, she flew back instead of going to a hospital; the plane stoped in Seattle, she continues to travel to Alaska instead of going to a hospital; when landed a city in Alaska, she drove for another 45 minutes instead of going to a hospital. Finally, the son was born in a small twon. Isn't this strange? Isn't this woman crazy?
The worst is not her craziness in her personal life. She once was associated with Alaska independent party. She always put Alaska before US.

Ultimately, she is just being herself, it is McCain who sold out his soul (if he has one) and principles (if he use to have). I do not believe he and she will do anything differently than Bush (even if they want to). And I certainly do not want to see the country continuing in the wrong direction for another 4 years.


Styx 回複 悄悄話 1, for her starting work 3 days after delivery, I'm not surprised. I saw quite a few female professors coming back to work within a week of deliveray and they and their kids were doing perfectly fine. Only Chinese women need lying in bed for a month after delivery.

2, on her daughter's pregnancy. I think she handled it very well. Actually she released the news herself before the media discovered and jumped onto it. I'm sure her family didn't make it like a disgrace to her daughter, but tried best to teach her to deal with it like a first important lesson in life. I saw her elder daughter and the daughter's fiance went on to stage together with the whole family last night. Their smile and happiness didn't look like pretending. On the other side, had her treated it like a real disgrace that needed to be covered, even stopped her political career right there because of that, it would have become a life-time guilty and pressure on her elder daughter. She would hate the baby and herself for finishing her mother's chance of being the first female VP and making history. Facing it (with the family's support) makes the daughter stronger and growing up faster. Covering it and hiding the whole family from public will make her life a total shame, now and forever. If your daughter were in such a situation, which way do you help her to choose?
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