職場煩惱：性騷擾

來源: 小閑 於 2013-07-16 11:39:03 [檔案] [博客] [舊帖] 
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職場要考慮的問題很多，還無緣無故的有不必要的煩惱。忍無可忍，吐出來求解。一個同事會在辦公室拍我的肩膀，手腕，甚至手指伸向我的脖子問我的項鏈，我慌忙倒退兩步，不然就要被摸。我中年大媽，最反感異性接觸。不願意告到HR把事情鬧大，可又忍無可忍，天天想著怎樣防“色狼”。實在影響情緒和工作效率。大計出主意怎樣化解，多謝！

 

P.S: I am a mid-aged woman with no exercise. I don't have fancy cloth, no desire to show my out of shape body. Plus。
the air conditioning works so well. I need to cover every inch of my skin to not get cold  in the office .

I am so angry about it!

 

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• 你也拍他、摸他、指他的脖子...... -老婆兒子狗；）- ♂   (150 bytes) (108 reads) 7/16/13 11:42:00

• 回複：你也拍他、摸他、指他的脖子...... -小閑- ♀   (83 bytes) (155 reads) 7/16/13 11:43:34

• 那就跟他直說，你不喜歡不就得了 -老婆兒子狗；）- ♂   (0 bytes) (6 reads) 7/16/13 11:44:45

• Yes! I need to say NO -小閑- ♀   (0 bytes) (3 reads) 7/16/13 11:45:42

• 讓你老公下班堵他，照小肚子狠踹一腳罵道：你小子老實點，否則廢了你！ -todayonly-    (0 bytes) (2 reads) 7/16/13 11:45:21

• 你這存心讓樓主守寡呢：））） -老婆兒子狗；）- ♂   (112 bytes) (58 reads) 7/16/13 11:47:40

• 回複：你這存心讓樓主守寡呢：））） -小閑- ♀   (58 bytes) (107 reads) 7/16/13 11:50:46

• MANY TIME？THEN UR LD SHOULD DO SOMETHING -todayonly-    (199 bytes) (74 reads) 7/16/13 11:54:33

• OK! Thanks all! -小閑- ♀   (0 bytes) (2 reads) 7/16/13 11:56:49

• 是帥哥嗎？ -尚宮娘娘- ♀    (0 bytes) (4 reads) 7/16/13 11:42:02

• Big no- at least for me! -小閑- ♀   (11 bytes) (37 reads) 7/16/13 11:44:28

• 找HR訴苦 -尚宮娘娘- ♀    (0 bytes) (1 reads) 7/16/13 11:45:43

• 同意，嘛人啊。 -劇似佛依稀-   (0 bytes) (1 reads) 7/16/13 11:47:26

• 跟他說話離遠遠的，再不行就直說。 -巴西木- ♀   (0 bytes) (4 reads) 7/16/13 11:44:46

• 回複：跟他說話離遠遠的，再不行就直說。 -小閑- ♀   (237 bytes) (116 reads) 7/16/13 11:47:56

• 對他直說，你don't feel comfortable being touch -Sta- ♀   (0 bytes) (6 reads) 7/16/13 11:44:51

• 直接嚴肅地告訴他 -姐妹倆媽媽- ♀   (26 bytes) (120 reads) 7/16/13 11:46:10

• Yes! That is what I need to do. -小閑- ♀   (63 bytes) (27 reads) 7/16/13 11:49:09

• 可以找老板說說，讓老板處理。 -蓬萊擊鼓-   (0 bytes) (1 reads) 7/16/13 11:55:22

• Then, he will loss the job~~ Thanks all! -小閑- ♀   (0 bytes) (4 reads) 7/16/13 11:57:52

• 在座位上裝個web camera，貼個條：Surveillance Camera -clothtiger- ♂    (0 bytes) (7 reads) 7/16/13 11:46:15

• 回複：在座位上裝個web camera，貼個條：Surveillance Cam -小閑- ♀   (45 bytes) (50 reads) 7/16/13 11:50:00

• 裝個更近的，假的就行:) -clothtiger- ♂    (0 bytes) (0 reads) 7/16/13 11:51:53

• 這是性騷擾，應該和HR談談. -王醫生- ♂    (0 bytes) (5 reads) 7/16/13 11:47:12

• I don't want o be the one makes him loss -小閑- ♀   (31 bytes) (29 reads) 7/16/13 11:55:01

• 如果是GAY就從了吧 :) -網戀無罪- ♂    (0 bytes) (1 reads) 7/16/13 11:47:26

• 直接說：“I'd appreciate it if you could resp -Crystaldowns- ♀    (76 bytes) (84 reads) 7/16/13 11:47:34

• 嚴肅的告訴他你不喜歡被別人摸，沒什麽好掩飾了。。一般把事情挑明了比較好。 -Déjàvu116-    (0 bytes) (7 reads) 7/16/13 11:55:07

• OK! I will. Thanks for all the support! -小閑- ♀   (0 bytes) (0 reads) 7/16/13 11:56:18

• 用不著去HR說，一般這種事情一定要兩個人之間解決，不要把事情鬧大，對雙方都沒好處 -Déjàvu116-    (0 bytes) (7 reads) 7/16/13 11:57:01

• 一定要去HR，自我保護不是要害人。被倒打一耙反而不利(尤其看了lz的英語) -味苦- ♂   (0 bytes) (4 reads) 7/16/13 12:02:29

• 你以為你喊出去大家都聽你的啊。都向著你說，哼！。這種事情能私下解決一定不好喊。 -Déjàvu116-    (90 bytes) (15 reads) 7/16/13 12:35:07

• 沒錯。不是非要人家死的事情。很多慘案都是這些小事引起的。直接說了大家都好。 -林起立- ♂    (0 bytes) (0 reads) 7/16/13 12:07:37

• 找HR。注意要留下“書麵”的記錄。如英語不是很好，可先請人代筆(用詞絕對要謹重) -味苦- ♂   (0 bytes) (3 reads) 7/16/13 11:58:24

• 這人有油水不拉？要不先玩玩他嗬嗬？ -閑看庭前- ♂   (0 bytes) (1 reads) 7/16/13 12:00:29

• 就怕偷雞蝕米，嗬嗬 -味苦- ♂   (0 bytes) (0 reads) 7/16/13 12:05:18

• 直接告訴他，別觸摸 -林起立- ♂    (0 bytes) (3 reads) 7/16/13 12:00:53

• 這種事應直接反應到HR那裏,別含糊,別猶豫,否則,他會更得寸進尺.另外,平常你要 -lindaaa- ♀    (0 bytes) (35 reads) 7/16/13 12:08:09

• 謝謝大家的熱心！ -小閑- ♀   (64 bytes) (45 reads) 7/16/13 12:19:44

• 去找HR是下下策，得饒人處且饒人，他如果為此丟了工作，你也會覺得不忍心，也不是什 -ilovefriday- ♀   (0 bytes) (12 reads) 7/16/13 12:39:39

• Thanks! -小閑- ♀   (76 bytes) (18 reads) 7/16/13 12:43:17

• EMAIL他讓他注意不要TOUCH 你。 -Joyyu- ♀    (125 bytes) (44 reads) 7/16/13 12:47:57

• Thanks! -小閑- ♀   (62 bytes) (13 reads) 7/16/13 12:55:02