【隨想】天使落到人間，那他一定非常孤單

【隨想】天使落到人間，那他一定非常孤單

百度裴吧　簡73  
   

  我一直在想，裴勇俊的身上，到底是什麽在吸引著我？他外形俊朗、氣質優雅，令人仰慕；他為人真誠，努力工作，讓人敬重。可是，這些還不夠。真正令我不舍的，可能是他身上的那份落寞和不經意間流露的孤單。 

    真的，裴勇俊、申東賢和薑俊尚，他們很像。他們都非常優秀，仿佛可以得到一切，可是並非如此，他們的內心非常孤單寂寞。別人想走近他們，非常不易。他們能接納別人，就更難。 

    裴勇俊雖然集萬千寵愛於一身，但他事事追求完美的個性和“一舉一動都會成為新聞”的外界壓力使他失去了自由。其實，人的天性中本就有“惡與醜”的一麵，可是，嚴謹自律的性格和許多人對他近乎信仰的愛讓他不得不摒棄這一切，他必須時刻以完美的形象出現。我想，這一定也讓他感到很辛苦吧？ 

    幸好，他的家人很愛他。這可以給他些許溫暖，所以他很珍視他們。但是，這種溫暖隻是外在的，它更像是一種動力，它促使他繼續努力、不斷向前。可是，當他夜不能寐、獨自哭泣的時候，誰能把他摟在懷裏，安撫他疲憊的身心？ 

    曾經有家人說過，裴勇俊是落入凡間的天使。天使落入凡間，這是我們的幸運。可是，落入凡間的天使，他一定很孤單。 

    所以，我想對他說，缺陷的存在不僅合理，而且必然。所以，不必太辛苦。我們能夠理解，並且因為理解而更加喜愛。
 

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I could not stop thinking. What is drawing me so intensely to BYJ?
His handsome looks and gracious qualities are admirable. His sincerity and earnestness are respectable. But these are not all, what makes me truly attracted to him, is perhaps the revelation of that desolation, his unconscious disclosure of loneliness.

Actually, BYJ, Shin Dong-hyuk and Kang Joon-sang are quite similar. They are all truly exceptional. It’s like they could have anything they wish, but in the depths of their heart there is a loneliness by no means totally secluded. It is extremely difficult to get close to them. For them to be open to others is even more difficult.

Although BYJ is loved by millions around the world, his pursuing of perfectionism and the close watching of his every move, has placed enormous pressures on his freedom. Although it is natural for us to possess and display our weaknesses, for BYJ, gone are the carefree days, as emphasis of glorifying him become more intense. His practice of rigorous self control becomes more important as at all time he needs to display that perfect image. I am thinking, what a strenuous life? This must be so tiring for him.

Luckily, his families love him dearly. This may give him a small amount of comfort. Therefore he treasures them dearly. But this kind of warmth may only be on the outside. It acts as a dynamic force, in order to move/take him to the next level and work harder. But who is there to comfort his bleary soul and to embrace his exhausted body when he cannot sleep and feels lonely and teary at night?

As his family, some have said that BYJ is like an angel descended from Heaven. This is so fortune for us/mankind, but for the angel, he could be very lonesome.

Therefore, I just want to tell him. No one is flawless. Don’t be so laborious. We understand and because of our understanding, we love you even more.