也談愛情－【熱愛你的生活】

也談愛情－【熱愛你的生活】

不知是我們的欲望太高或是大自然和我們開了個玩笑。現實生活中往往苦多於樂，困擾更時時伴隨我們的左右，然幸福就如遲到的春天終是姍姍來遲。珍視愛情將為我們對生活充滿信心，更使我們的生活富於溫馨情趣。

愛情和初戀不同，她需要雙方不斷的培育滋潤和澆灌；婚後的愛情更是如此。婚後的愛情往往由於油鹽醬醋米的瑣事衝淡了愛情的浪漫火花甚至令愛情走到了盡頭而僅存相守的義務，那麽離亮起婚姻紅燈的距離亦不遠了。

真正好的方法是夫婦雙方在平時多一點體貼關懷和諒解；多作一些溝通交流，多懷一點感激之情。婚姻一場不容易，漂泊到他鄉異國共同創業更不容易。何況夫妻其實是一體，彼此無需斤斤計較成功與失敗；因為任何一方的成功與否均有另一方直接或間接的參於投入和付出。而彼此應該共患難，同富貴。 

精品文摘：熱愛你的生活

Love your life

However mean your life is, meet it and live it; do not shun it and call it hard names. It is not as bad as you are. It looks poorest when you are richest. The fault-finder will find faults in paradise. Love your life, poor as it is. You may perhaps have some pleasant, thrilling, glorious hours, even in a poor-house.

The setting sun is reflected from the windows of the alms-house as brightly as from the rich man’s abode; the snow melts before its door as early in the spring. I do not see but a quiet mind may live as contentedly there, and have as cheering thoughts, as in a palace. The town’s poor seem to me often to live the most independent lives of any. May be they are simply great enough to receive without misgiving.

Most think that they are above being supported by the town; but it often happens that they are not above supporting themselves by dishonest means. Which should be more disreputable? Cultivate poverty like a garden herb, like sage. Do not trouble yourself much to get new things, whether clothes or friends, turn the old, return to them. Things do not change; we change. Sell your clothes and keep your thoughts.

Henry David Thoreau

熱愛生活

不論你的生活如何卑賤，你要麵對它生活，不要躲避它，更別用惡言咒罵 它。它不像你那樣壞。你最富有的時候，倒是看似最窮。愛找缺點的人就是到天堂裏也能找到缺點。你要愛你的生活，盡管它貧窮。甚至在一個濟貧院裏，你也還有 愉快、高興、光榮的時候。

夕陽反射在濟貧院的窗上，像身在富戶人家窗上一樣光亮；在那門前，積雪同在早春融化。我隻看到，一個從容的人，在哪裏也像在皇宮 中一樣，生活得心滿意足而富有愉快的思想。城鎮中的窮人，我看，倒往往是過著最獨立不羈的生活。也許因為他們很偉大，所以受之無愧。

大多數人以為他們是超 然的，不靠城鎮來支援他們；可是事實上他們是往往利用了不正當的手段來對付生活，他們是毫不超脫的，毋寧是不體麵的。視貧窮如園中之花而像聖人一樣耕植它 吧！不要找新的花樣，無論是新的朋友或新的衣服，來麻煩你自己。找舊的，回到那裏去。萬物不變，是我們在變。你的衣服可以賣掉，但要保留你的思想。

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