The Look of Love ( 3 )

I can hardly wait to hold you,

 Feel my arms around you.

 How long I have waited,

Waited just to love you,

Now that I have found you,
 Don't ever go. (Diana Krall)

After opening the profile, in fact, I did not log in the account that often and had never searched for anyone or taken initiative to send anyone a message. But, surprisingly I did receive quiet a few messages. Usually, I reviewed the profile of a sender first, and if I found somehow interesting, I replied them and chatted with them mainly through the Instant Messenger provided by the website.

Funny enough, at the beginning, most of the people I was communicating with are married men. Some claimed that they had problem with the current relationship, but would not break it until they found a new one; some said both parties had been upset by their marriage, but did not want to break it because of some reason, e.g. to wait for kids getting older; some were just looking for fun. 

Of course, I clearly told them that I have no interest on any married men at all. In the mean time, I complained that to YM. YM asked me what I put in the file of what relation you are seeking to. Chat and Friend, I replied, because in mind that’s a start for a relationship. That was the problem, YM concluded, you should put Long Relationship there. 

 
Listening to her, I changed the request on my profile accordingly and since I have never received messages from married one. It did work pretty well.

Couple of weeks after the profile opening, before I changing my request for long term relationship, once I logged in it while I was talking with my friend Connie on phone. I just upload a few pictures but keep them closed to everyone, and I was going to show Connie those pictures. Suddenly, I received an Instant Message.

 

- You like to have chat?

- Why you said so? I did not get him at all

- Your profile says that you are seeking for a chat and friend.

- Oh, that’s it.

In a mood of joking, I clicked his profile, gave the link to Connie and let her review it together with me. Connie kept giving me her comments.

-         His English is pretty good
-         Oh, he listed 13 requirements! But that’s not bad. At least he knows what he wants.
-         Like music, like swimming, like cycling, like dancing…seems a very good match with you
-         He does look athletic as his profile says, and his kids are very good looking
……

 
While she was commenting, I started my chat with him by asking one by one whether he himself meets those requirements. Of course, he did, and that was a pretty interesting and good start of such a conversation.

Since soon after he meeting me, he had deleted his profile on that website. Both of us could not remember completely about those 13 points.  We only could list below most probable ones.
 

1. Psychological healthy

2. Love different kinds of music

3. Like cycling

4. Like swimming

5. Not still in love with ex

6. No issues with pervious relationships

7. Have a job

8. Like dancing

9. 38 years old or younger

10. Not Internet addicted

11. Might have one or two kids ((if you don’t, you must accept that I have two kids part time. But I’m not looking for a replacement mother)

12. Not smoke

13. Not alcoholic or take drugs

[OrangeBread]

讚！

[longhairr]

回複worldling的評論:
謝謝哇博士.歡迎MM常來園子玩.:)

[worldling]

Wow~~~ "理性、成熟、身心健康、愛運動、愛孩子、有生活情趣（愛跳舞、愛音樂）的男人" indeed!

Happy for you!

[寒枝]

回複longhair的評論:
前一段時間換電腦，把原來的收藏夾丟了：（

好不容易找回來，可惜錯過了很多！不過，今後就會常來啦！

[warmginger]

俺也覺得可以提出這樣條件的人，一定本身不錯呀。。。

我有好幾條都不合格。internet addicted。 沒有ex husband (這個可不可以加分啊？）, 但是有ex bf, 而且有時還記著（甚至還記者不是我的ex的人。。。。更糟糕。。。）。。。 不會跳舞。也不肯定是否psychologically healthy.。。

[longhairr]

回複Liketoread的評論:
來自男同胞的肯定,那一定是價值不同的. :)

SS,你們說,男同胞的評價和女同胞的評價,哪個更可能正確,價值更高?嘿嘿...

[Liketoread]

等下文。

快要地球上找不到了的好男人。好幸運，好好真惜。

[longhair]

回複寒枝的評論:
MM好久沒見,可好? 是偶爾來訪還是一直在潛水呀? :)

[寒枝]

我也等著下篇了！

[longhairr]

回複陳默的評論:
他要是看得懂JJ的話,一定要高興死了. 這些要求他自己倒是符合的.不過,跟他這些要求的理性、成熟比,他其實挺孩子氣的...以後有空可以舉例說明..嘿嘿...

合適的人是可遇不可求,那真是的.

[longhairr]

回複歌兒的評論:
你那咋叫INTERNET ADDICTED呢.不會遊泳可以學,正好給他機會教呀..跳舞嗎興趣也是可以培養的嘛..

我問MM如果看了這些要求還會不會要他,是因為如果是以前,我看到這麽一點點要求頗多的,可能會不接受的 -- 你以為你是誰呀?!而且這麽現實,全沒情調...嘿嘿..

[longhairr]

回複punny的評論:
hehe...當時最得心那條是"I'm not looking for a replacement mother"...我可是沒信心做後媽的.

[longhairr]

回複我就是的評論:
這張PP真是好呀...赫本是我的至愛呀...

[陳默]

長發妹妹好福氣。他自己一定也是這樣的人，才會有同等的要求。

這樣理性、成熟、身心健康、愛運動、愛孩子、有生活情趣（愛跳舞、愛音樂）的男人真是可遇不可求啊。

期待下文。祝福！

[歌兒]

長發我徹底失去競爭力了，我不會遊泳，還不愛跳舞，另外我是internet addicted. :)

[punny]

恩，恩，每一條都很不錯呢。

[我就是]

期待。。。。

[longhairr]

回複歌兒的評論:
公主之前點名說這個就行...如果當初你看到這些個要求,你會感覺如何?會覺得還行不?...嘿嘿...

[longhairr]

回複xpHan的評論:
哪裏好呀?1,2,3,4,5...顯得條理很清的樣子,不過一點也不風趣嘛.

MM知道哪一句最得我心嗎?..嘿嘿...

[longhairr]

回複warmginger的評論:
hehe...don't you think he was too selective? :)

There was one requirement, I almost could not match.

[歌兒]

期待下文。。。

[xpHan]

his profile is good, very good. I like. heeheeee
長發的love seat!!!

[warmginger]

These requirements are good...

[warmginger]

長發的沙發:)