The Look of Love ( 1 )

I can hardly wait to hold you,

Feel my arms around you.

How long I have waited,

Waited just to love you,

Now that I have found you,

Don't ever go. (Diana Krall)

 

We have been thinking about telling our story out for a long time, from very beginning. We’d like to share our experience with people, who are still looking for the other part of themselves as what we used to, and encourage them with hopes of finding true love. Life is full with surprises!

Besides of time constrains, maybe just because have such a purpose in mind, I found it was very difficult to start, even in which language the story will be told. Finally, I made my mind to write it in English.

Firstly, I’d like to involve both parties into the composition from their own perspective respectively. Moreover, it is feasible and fair that both use their second language, which is fully understandable for them, most of their friends and hopefully most of readers of this Blog

 
Last, but not lease, shame to say, but it is true, by using a non-mother tongue language, people might have lower expectations, and at least  I will have an excuse to blame if people feel the story is not interesting, not to say that I type English much faster than Chinese in fact. J

 
從許諾了歌兒起，我就倍感提筆寫我們的故事了的壓力了，於是先寫了這段前言。

之後如計劃的兩人開始同時寫了, 沒幾段，就發現我這計劃是多麽的不可行。且不說兩個人很難同時有空坐下來寫東西，寫東西本身看來也不是他的愛好和長處，雖然蠻能說的個人，寫起來就全不是那麽回事了。這麽一拖就拖到的MSN大會，我才迫切地感到不能再拖下去了，所以隻好一個人勇挑重擔了。

如此一來，這篇東東就會是英文開頭，中文繼續；會是兩個人的視角開始，然後轉成一個人的。如果哪天他有時間有興致了，插一段英文進來也不是不可能。所以，這會是篇很亂的文字，大家將就著看吧。

[longhair]

8226; 給大家分享一下我們的故事. 特別給還在尋尋覓覓的朋友, 尤其是尋求網 -longhair- ♀ (241 bytes) (166 reads) 3/31/09

這個故事是去年寫的..現在與他達成共識,上到公眾論壇來,是希望可以給朋友們一些鼓勵. 來婚壇的時間不長, 不過時不時見到有JM問起網配之事, 就算是給大家一個積極的例子吧. :)

有緣人就在那裏等著你呢, 你們會有相遇的一天, 無論是通過什麽方式, 請相信!

8226; 還沒看過兩個人一起寫的故事 一定非常生動有趣，期待！ -guaiwolf- ♀ (0 bytes) (4 reads) 3/31/09


8226; 謝謝乖乖狼. 有趣可能是, 不知道夠不夠生動. :) -longhair- ♀ (0 bytes) (2 reads) 3/31/09

8226; MTV: The Look of Love - Diana Krall -mousa- ♀ (517 bytes) (22 reads) 3/31/09

[南山鬆]

等下文呢。

[longhairr]

回複warmginger的評論:
就來了..不過沒多少,MM別失望哦. :)

[longhairr]

回複歌兒的評論:
其實對溝通和包容力的要求也不是象你以為要的那麽高的.

這個周末跟一個女朋友還為此探討了一下,她未婚夫也是外國人.我們有個共識, 一般來說他們喜歡經常肯定你,表達他對你需要...我想這給了溝通和相處一個很好的平台.

[longhairr]

回複Liketoread的評論:
謝謝愛讀的鼓勵...更歡迎愛讀帶來的陽鋼之氣..嘿嘿...

[longhairr]

回複我就是的評論:
是應該是應該,隻怪我打字寫東西沒有MM或是GER快呀.

她們的心情我太理解了,不能說是沒信心或歧視的...嘿嘿...

[warmginger]

兩個人的視角，期待！

[歌兒]

哈哈，餅妹揭露我！我不是歧視，我是對自己的溝通和包容力沒信心。:)

[Liketoread]

開頭就精彩！寫的非常好！

[我就是]

沙發！
長發姐姐就是應該寫寫，要不然她們總是沒信心，外帶還歧視外國人