youwrite:
Withatechnique,yourjustthatlittlesplitsecondsloweratthe
draw,comparedwithagoodcommunicator.Andthatleavesyouata
disadvantagewhenyouwanttooutwit,outargue,persuadeand
convincepeople.Lifeislikeahorseracewithaphotofinish.The
winnerisnotmuchfasterthansecondplace,itsthatlittle
fractionextraeverytimethatmakesthedifference.
Irespond:
plzreadmyothermessagefirst--but...[閱讀全文]
Bouncing Ball
Life is like a ball. When you hit it harder, it will bounce higher.
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(2007-10-30 06:41:12)
(2007-10-30 06:39:41)
Max,
Pleaseallowmetorexplainmyself..Perhaps,Iwasn'tclear.
Ialreadycanspeak100%fluentlyinallsituationsincludingpublic
speaking,etc--withoutanytechnique.IalsoknowthatIhavealways
beenableto.ICHOOSEnotto,however,becauseImakePEACEmy
highestpriorityandmytechniqueisnowmyACCENT..ItisPARTof
me...Idonotconciouslyuseit--Itisgenerallyasubconscious,
automaticact.Thus,to"unlearn...[閱讀全文]
Pleaseallowmetorexplainmyself..Perhaps,Iwasn'tclear.
Ialreadycanspeak100%fluentlyinallsituationsincludingpublic
speaking,etc--withoutanytechnique.IalsoknowthatIhavealways
beenableto.ICHOOSEnotto,however,becauseImakePEACEmy
highestpriorityandmytechniqueisnowmyACCENT..ItisPARTof
me...Idonotconciouslyuseit--Itisgenerallyasubconscious,
automaticact.Thus,to"unlearn...[閱讀全文]
(2007-10-29 12:57:09)
WhenIwaseighteenIdreamedofbeingajournalist.Iappliedto
hundredsofpapers(everytownhadaweeklyragbackthen)andevenhad
aninterviewwithAberdeen's'big'dailypaper.Ididreallybadlyat
theinterviewandevenhadtheaudacitytosay,whenaskedwhatmy
longertermambitionswere,thatIsawthejobasasteppingstoneto
FleetStreetandtheNationals.Talkaboutthenaivetyofyouth!!
I'vealwaysbelievedinme,evenwhenitwas...[閱讀全文]
hundredsofpapers(everytownhadaweeklyragbackthen)andevenhad
aninterviewwithAberdeen's'big'dailypaper.Ididreallybadlyat
theinterviewandevenhadtheaudacitytosay,whenaskedwhatmy
longertermambitionswere,thatIsawthejobasasteppingstoneto
FleetStreetandtheNationals.Talkaboutthenaivetyofyouth!!
I'vealwaysbelievedinme,evenwhenitwas...[閱讀全文]
(2007-10-29 09:43:00)
Cheryl,
ItwasJFK,ormoreprobablyhisspeechwriter,whowrote"weneedmen
(andpresumablywomen)whocandreamofthingsthatneverwere..."
Allofus,tovaryingdegrees,havebeenmoldedbyoutstutterandthe
effecttheaccompanyingembarrassment,frustrationandindeedpainhas
createdduringourformativeyears.We'vealsobeenmoldedbyour
parents,theenvironmentwe'vegrownupinetc.
Likeyou-andalsoataroundyourage-...[閱讀全文]
ItwasJFK,ormoreprobablyhisspeechwriter,whowrote"weneedmen
(andpresumablywomen)whocandreamofthingsthatneverwere..."
Allofus,tovaryingdegrees,havebeenmoldedbyoutstutterandthe
effecttheaccompanyingembarrassment,frustrationandindeedpainhas
createdduringourformativeyears.We'vealsobeenmoldedbyour
parents,theenvironmentwe'vegrownupinetc.
Likeyou-andalsoataroundyourage-...[閱讀全文]
(2007-10-29 09:37:18)
Well,Ithinkoneofthebiggesttricksofstutteringisthatitisso
inconsistent.Unlikeother...afflictions(sinceIknowyoudon'tlike
theword"disabilities"),itdoesn'talwaysstay,it'softennot
immediatelynoticeable,etc.Thus,it'snotonlyconfusingforthe
listenerbutthestuttereritself.IfI'mstartingtoorderadrinkat
starbucksandI'mtalkingfinebutallofasuddentheyaskmyname
andIblocklikethere'snotomorro...[閱讀全文]
inconsistent.Unlikeother...afflictions(sinceIknowyoudon'tlike
theword"disabilities"),itdoesn'talwaysstay,it'softennot
immediatelynoticeable,etc.Thus,it'snotonlyconfusingforthe
listenerbutthestuttereritself.IfI'mstartingtoorderadrinkat
starbucksandI'mtalkingfinebutallofasuddentheyaskmyname
andIblocklikethere'snotomorro...[閱讀全文]
(2007-10-29 09:21:38)
Breathing:Thepatternssurroundingtheactualblocks/stuttershavea
differentbreathpatternduetothestrugglenature.However,when
youareusingtechnique,youarerelaxingthevocalcords
sufficientlyatthe[andpriortothe]onsetofspeechsuchthatthe
blockneveroccurs.
Thatsaid,youknowhowtobreathe.Youbreathelikeeveryoneelse.
IfyouCONCENTRATEonyourbreath,youwillbreatha
bit"unnaturally"--Breathing...[閱讀全文]
differentbreathpatternduetothestrugglenature.However,when
youareusingtechnique,youarerelaxingthevocalcords
sufficientlyatthe[andpriortothe]onsetofspeechsuchthatthe
blockneveroccurs.
Thatsaid,youknowhowtobreathe.Youbreathelikeeveryoneelse.
IfyouCONCENTRATEonyourbreath,youwillbreatha
bit"unnaturally"--Breathing...[閱讀全文]
(2007-10-29 09:07:47)
HelloAndrew,
WhenIseeyou,Iseemyself3yearsago.Amaninfullcontrol
andtakingfullresponsibilityofhislife.Takinghisstutterby
thehornsanddoingwhateverhemusttoslaughterthebeast.
LikeyouIusedatechniquetoreachperfectfluency.Iwas
speakingattoastmastersspeakingtostrangersonthestreetand
phone.Ihadmystutternailed.Andweareroughlythesameage.
ThenonedayIsatdownandaskedmyself.Whatisthebi...[閱讀全文]
WhenIseeyou,Iseemyself3yearsago.Amaninfullcontrol
andtakingfullresponsibilityofhislife.Takinghisstutterby
thehornsanddoingwhateverhemusttoslaughterthebeast.
LikeyouIusedatechniquetoreachperfectfluency.Iwas
speakingattoastmastersspeakingtostrangersonthestreetand
phone.Ihadmystutternailed.Andweareroughlythesameage.
ThenonedayIsatdownandaskedmyself.Whatisthebi...[閱讀全文]
(2007-10-28 17:46:35)
Weareconstantlypuzzledbywhoweare,whywearehereandwherewego.
Physically,wehaveabody.Weknowthatwewerebornthroughourparentsandwewilldiewhenourbody'sfunctionsareover.Areweonlyourbody?
Themajorreligionsshowthatbodyandphysicaltemptationareagreatsourceofevil.AdamandEveatethefruitfromthetreeofknowledgeofgoodandevilandsinbegan.Manytraditions,religionshavesomepunishmentofhumanbodyorsupressbodilydesir...[閱讀全文]
Physically,wehaveabody.Weknowthatwewerebornthroughourparentsandwewilldiewhenourbody'sfunctionsareover.Areweonlyourbody?
Themajorreligionsshowthatbodyandphysicaltemptationareagreatsourceofevil.AdamandEveatethefruitfromthetreeofknowledgeofgoodandevilandsinbegan.Manytraditions,religionshavesomepunishmentofhumanbodyorsupressbodilydesir...[閱讀全文]
(2007-10-27 19:21:54)
Severalyearsago,IwenttoparktoseethecolorofAutumn,thered,yellow,greenleavesofdifferenttrees.Itwassoenjoyable.Itookalotofpictureswiththeleavesasabackground.IhavenotbeeninaparktoparticularlyseethesceneofAutumnforseveralyears.
Thismorning,afriendcalledmeifIwouldliketogoouttoseethecolorofleaves.IsaidthatIhappytogo.Sowedroveforabout1hourtoastatepark.Ididnotvisitthisparkbefore.Myfriendvisitedthispark...[閱讀全文]
Thismorning,afriendcalledmeifIwouldliketogoouttoseethecolorofleaves.IsaidthatIhappytogo.Sowedroveforabout1hourtoastatepark.Ididnotvisitthisparkbefore.Myfriendvisitedthispark...[閱讀全文]
(2007-10-26 19:55:56)
ThiseveningItookAmytoacrobatshowfromShanghaiacrobat.Amywasexcited.Sarahcouldnotcomebecauseshehadsomeactivities.Shewouldbeexcitedtooifshewaswatchingtheshow.
IrememberthatlastyearAmysaidtome"Aretheyrealpeople?"Kidsliketowatchacrobat,sodoadults.IaskedAmyifshewanttolearntheskills.Amyrepliedthatistoohard.Itoldherthatifsheispersistent,shewilllearnit.
EverytimewhenIamwatchingacrobat,Iwa...[閱讀全文]
IrememberthatlastyearAmysaidtome"Aretheyrealpeople?"Kidsliketowatchacrobat,sodoadults.IaskedAmyifshewanttolearntheskills.Amyrepliedthatistoohard.Itoldherthatifsheispersistent,shewilllearnit.
EverytimewhenIamwatchingacrobat,Iwa...[閱讀全文]
