I give you a lot of credit for admiting that you missed that critical piece of information about Canada's role on war on terrorism
I appreciate that you are not saying/judging me not to read the news any more
I'm confused who is more "judgemental" here. I understand that you speak for "any one", while I'm only speaking for my conscience when Canada, which I consider myself a proud part of, is put into such an unfavourable way by her own people. And those are the people that won't hesitate for a single second to exhaust all they can to milk the system.
I'm glad that you mentioned that it takes time. That's exactly the point I've been trying to make. It also takes patience and persistence. I can only hope this is well understood.
Let's also talk about some "racism, cultural discrimination =hostility". Have you personally experienced any? I had some too. I totally understand that does exist. Canada is not perfect! But it's one of the best of the world. And that's why we need keep working on it. We shouldn't think we are here just to enjoy. We got work to do. On the other hand, is the issue becoming such a factor to stop you from being successful? Come on Tango! Give me a break.
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Re:Hucheshaya
1. Why don't you read the news to learn the fact that Canada even didn't send a single RCMP officer to Iraq to train the Iraqis. Canada is only in Afgannistan.
ok, I took Iraq for Afgannistan.
2. That's right everyone's life has lots of ups and downs. But he/she becomes a loser if he/she blames a country that he/she volunarily immigrated to for his/her failure.
Even though they immigrated to Canada of their own volition, it is still reasonable for them to blame Canada because there are things to blame here such as racism, cultural discrimination =hostility may have more passive impact on the newcomers. It is also reasonble for them to do so because of the expectations induced by Canada itself. I also think that they must have already blamed themselves a thousand times.
Maybe you are doing ok here but that doesn't mean you are brighter and nicer than those people,. neither do u have the right to call other people losers. Even though they go back to china someday, which still doesn't mean they are losers,cus they just take other direction which may be better for them.
What i mean here is to be more understanding and tolerant, less judgemental.
3. I'm only defending Canada when she has been so distorted by the Chinese community and when she has been so wrongfully judged by so many that knows so little about Canada. I'm not judging or pre-judging anyone's life, even though I wish them all the best anywhere in the world, including Canada.
You have been judgemental, any one can tell when he/she reads your article. I venture to say that you might have not been through any real ups and downs, otherwise you will know that when people feel down or are depressed, they tend to take in the dark side more than the bright side.
To me, it is not distortion either, I would rather think that those are just not- well- balanced point of views--they seems to put more emphasis on one side of the coin, and ignore the other side, but the important thing is both sides are equal real and equal true.
Be understanding and give people more time, they will learn to enjoy the beauty and cozy life in this country.
By the way, losers are those people who give up, but I often find those people still working very hard to get out, I don't think they could be classified as losers.
No hard feeling.
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RE Tango123:
1. Why don't you read the news to learn the fact that Canada even didn't send a single RCMP officer to Iraq to train the Iraqis. Canada is only in Afgannistan.
2. That's right everyone's life has lots of ups and downs. But he/she becomes a loser if he/she blames a country that he/she volunarily immigrated to for his/her failure.
3. I'm only defending Canada when she has been so distorted by the Chinese community and when she has been so wrongfully judged by so many that knows so little about Canada. I'm not judging or pre-judging anyone's life, even though I wish them all the best anywhere in the world, including Canada.
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更沒有參與入侵伊拉克?
Are you sure? Did u read the news?Canada sent troops to Iraq in the name of peace keeping, but what they do is just like the americans.
加拿大的工資真是那麽底, 還是你的水平差, 還是你們昧著良心說瞎話?!
Ha, i know that you don't read news, according to statistics the average annual income of chinese immigrants is less than $20000.
Everyone's life has its up-and-downs, which doesn't mean that they are losers when they are down. It may take some people longer to acculturate.And how do you define losers, more money means more successful? I can see where you are going to.以金錢衡量成功和失敗?你太好玩了.
Life is complex, you should learn to be more understanding not so judgemental.Besides, next time when you have to pass such judgement to other people, try to make it reasonable, i mean on firm ground.
