耐心給孩子一段時間, 有的成熟晚電。也可找心理醫生談談。首先還是要搞好關係, 讓家裏充滿歡樂,

這樣才可能以後有好的交通和正麵影響。十四歲(?)可以打工。也可以選些箴言(聖經)的話與他們分享。

Proverbs 12 NLT

14 Wise words bring many benefits,
    and hard work brings rewards.

15 Fools think their own way is right,
    but the wise listen to others.

16 A fool is quick-tempered,
    but a wise person stays calm when insulted.

17 An honest witness tells the truth;
    a false witness tells lies.

18 Some people make cutting remarks,
    but the words of the wise bring healing.

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