1. Constant Need for Validation:
- Your partner frequently asks, "Do you love me?" or "Am I pretty/handsome?" and gets upset if they don’t get a compliment or reassurance at the exact moment they want it. No matter how much you reassure them, they need continuous attention to feel secure.
2. Overly Jealous or Possessive Behavior:
- They get upset or suspicious if you spend time with friends or family and feel the need to know every detail of your interactions. They might ask you things like, “Who was that person you were talking to at work?” or demand to check your phone or social media messages regularly.
3. High Expectations for Gifts or Surprises:
- Your partner expects lavish gifts or elaborate surprises, even for occasions that don’t typically call for big gestures. Birthdays, holidays, or even small anniversaries become high-pressure events where they expect something over-the-top, and may not be happy with anything less.
4. Frequent Emotional Outbursts:
- They might have dramatic emotional reactions to small, everyday things. For instance, they get incredibly upset over something like a slight change in plans or an innocent comment, and expect you to drop everything to soothe them or fix the situation.
5. Wanting All of Your Time:
- Your partner insists that you spend all your free time together, and they get upset if you hang out with friends, family, or even want some alone time. They might say things like, "If you loved me, you'd want to spend every minute with me."
6. Constant Comparison:
- They compare you to their ex-partners, friends, or even celebrities, always expecting you to live up to an unrealistic standard. “Why can’t you be more like this person?” becomes a common phrase in their vocabulary.
7. Need for Constant Attention and Compliments:
- They want to be the center of attention all the time, and get upset or pouty if you’re not giving them enough attention. For instance, if you're busy working or talking to someone else, they may feel ignored and make passive-aggressive comments.
8. Over-the-Top Requests or Demands:
- They might ask for something that's completely unreasonable, like changing plans last minute for an elaborate date night, or demanding you attend every event they’re invited to, even if it’s inconvenient for you.
9. Seeking Drama or Conflict:
- They might pick fights over the smallest things—like whether you left the toothpaste cap off—and turn it into a bigger issue, needing to "talk it out" over and over again, even when the situation doesn't warrant that much attention.
10. Living in an Idealized Fantasy:
- Your partner may fantasize about a "perfect" relationship and then get upset when real life doesn’t measure up. They might expect grand romantic gestures or ideal situations at all times, which is exhausting to maintain long-term.
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