每一個人不一樣

Yiyun Li didn’t cry on the day that her elder son died, or later when her mother-in-law and her father died. But after finding an obituary for her babysitter, she broke into uncontrollable sobs. “A friend listened to me cry on the phone and told me that I was crying for the others, too,” she writes. “Another friend wrote to me that night and said that she, too, belonged to the ‘delayed crying club—and those tears do collect interest.’” At the link in our bio, Li reflects on tears, grief, and unspoken words

我自己吧，同事告訴我她父親去世了，我哭了，她問為什麽，她說她並不難受

 

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• 哭不哭無所謂，有的時候過於悲痛反而沒有眼淚，很正常 -ivyclimber- ♂ (0 bytes) () 02/23/2024 postreply 05:16:41

• 你這人很簡單， -hz82000- ♀ (408 bytes) () 02/23/2024 postreply 05:18:43

• 煎蛋就煎蛋吧，喜歡單麵煎的，不要翻 -ivyclimber- ♂ (43 bytes) () 02/23/2024 postreply 05:20:10