He feels he is doing all these for your sake

even though he is very good at it.

You have to somehow convince him that he is doing all these for his own sake. He has to be responsible for his future, not you.

Once he has a job, initiative is everything. 

 

 

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• 可能真相了，老大說過他做的一切都是為了我。我反問難道不是為了他自己？ -yangyang08- ♀ (62 bytes) () 09/20/2023 postreply 17:17:37

• 哎呀，都找到真相了，這不正好問問他自己想做什麽，他希望你怎麽做，真正尊重傾聽孩子的想法，而不是把你的想法強加給他。 -ShirleyKay- ♀ (0 bytes) () 09/20/2023 postreply 18:26:40