今天女兒給我寫的信，我和她爸爸給女兒的回複。

今天女兒的語文課有個minor grade，類似於quiz。結果班上都考得不好。我女兒也隻得了60分。

然後語文老師說：“凡是得分低於70的，自己寫信給家長，然後CC我。”然後聽到教室裏一片鬼哭狼嚎，很多亞裔孩子知道要通知家長，都嚇傻了。然後語文老師又對女兒說：“你一定要通知到你媽媽。 言下之意，你有個亞裔虎媽。她會fix your grade。

這是女兒寫給我和她爹的信：

Dear Parents, 

 

In Mr.B's class， I have gotten a 60 on one of my assignments. The main reason I got a 60 is because I have lacked doing work on the assignment. Before I was with a 91 in the grade book. Now I'm having a 90 in the grade book. I have worked on it at home but with my swim, homework from other classes, and my parents. It's hard to catch up. I do get class time to work on it, but as Mr.B states "Y'all dilly dally"  which I do, I haven't done a lot of work on the assignment. I promise to start working and quit talking to all my classmates. 

 

 

這是我寫給女兒的信，當時是手機發的。也不知道這個回複她老師也能看到。

 

You have plenty of time to finish the assignment. Just stop talking to your friends on a daily basis. Finish your assignments first and then have your phone calls. It is all about the time management. Remember your leisure time on the phone is the first thing to go if you cannot find time to do your assignments.

 

 

 

這是他爹的回複:

 

Thank you for your note explaining the low score you have received in class.  It is important to get ahead of bad news and communicate as soon as possible.  Facing adversity directly and timely takes courage and self-discipline.

 

As you know your Mother and I value education, and we expect you to endeavour to learn with focus and tenacity.  Learning is not scoring high or getting a good grade, learning is understanding the topic and material at a deep level.  Grades typically take care of themselves once you focus on learning and obtaining a deep understanding of the subject.

 

Your Mother and I have great faith in you and know you can achieve great things if you can obtain the self-discipline required.  Keep at it and I know soon there will be an email to celebrate a high score.

 

感覺LD的思想政治工作做得不錯啊,比我強多了.

 

 

所有跟帖： 

• 好爸爸 -yzhl888- ♀ (0 bytes) () 09/20/2023 postreply 16:29:30

• 爸爸寫得很好，讚 -gladys- ♂ (0 bytes) () 09/20/2023 postreply 16:32:12

• 慘，這是幾年級？我女兒得過一次物理八十，哭的死去活來，後來補救好了， -floweryrose- ♀ (0 bytes) () 09/20/2023 postreply 16:39:40

• 6年紀的ELA和humanity（曆史），要分析句式結構，相當於8年紀ELA -Pilsung- ♂ (0 bytes) () 09/20/2023 postreply 16:46:41

• 那沒事，不是高中不計成績 -floweryrose- ♀ (0 bytes) () 09/20/2023 postreply 16:49:42

• 老師說這門課幾乎沒人拿A -Pilsung- ♂ (0 bytes) () 09/20/2023 postreply 16:49:54

• 這啥老師啊？打擊六年級小娃？要我就跟娃說不用管這門課多成績。但是需要多讀多寫多發言 -randomness- ♀ (0 bytes) () 09/20/2023 postreply 16:58:26

• 我也是這個想法。多寫多學還是沒壞處。她這個是accelerate ELA，整個六年級隻有一個班，20多個孩子。 -Pilsung- ♂ (204 bytes) () 09/20/2023 postreply 17:06:37

• 哎，我們這邊學區課沒有ELA快班 -兩女寶媽- ♀ (0 bytes) () 09/20/2023 postreply 17:18:39

• 我們初中老師，稍微難點考試，家長就開始投訴，說孩子壓力山大 -tax2- ♀ (0 bytes) () 09/20/2023 postreply 17:24:57

• 我們高中放 -floweryrose- ♀ (0 bytes) () 09/20/2023 postreply 17:03:50

• 這爹的情商比娘好了一萬倍呀。 -其樂無窮- ♂ (0 bytes) () 09/20/2023 postreply 16:42:58

• 老美說話，是有化腐朽為神奇的本事。啥毛病都能先誇出一朵花的本事。哈哈 -Pilsung- ♂ (0 bytes) () 09/20/2023 postreply 16:48:12

• 明顯是中西文化差異，你是讓孩子分分秒秒都學習，做課外活動，馬不停蹄 -tax2- ♀ (0 bytes) () 09/20/2023 postreply 16:43:27

• 她哪裏分分鍾學習，回到家一半時間跟朋友手機聊天。所以我才說不是沒時間做作業，而是找借口。 -Pilsung- ♂ (0 bytes) () 09/20/2023 postreply 16:45:06

• 這個正常，孩子們都是放學後玩的，你家和白人比已經很好了，你多誇她 -tax2- ♀ (33 bytes) () 09/20/2023 postreply 16:48:09

• 我隻是說心理戰術，孩子們的教練說啥都是好話，孩子喜歡聽，也喜歡和他暢所欲言 -tax2- ♀ (63 bytes) () 09/20/2023 postreply 16:50:12

• 同意， 我也 說話不行 -yzhl888- ♀ (0 bytes) () 09/20/2023 postreply 16:56:10

• 讚！非常用心投入。很見個性。-：） -有言- ♂ (0 bytes) () 09/20/2023 postreply 16:53:01

• 不得不承認老美這反麵真的是做的好。同事老美就連吹毛求疵也讓你特舒坦， -tidytiger- ♀ (51 bytes) () 09/20/2023 postreply 16:59:38

• 這個老爹和我的風格挺像 ：） -DukeAB- ♂ (0 bytes) () 09/20/2023 postreply 17:03:05

• 你情商好高，難怪娶到聰明漂亮的老婆。 -tidytiger- ♀ (0 bytes) () 09/20/2023 postreply 17:15:06

• 你們學校老師還挺負責的 -兩女寶媽- ♀ (0 bytes) () 09/20/2023 postreply 17:17:05

• 你怎麽是媽媽呢？你明明是個男的？因為你的網名和網名上的性別符號都是男的？怎麽回事，是個彩虹族？ -hhtt- ♂ (0 bytes) () 09/20/2023 postreply 17:45:18

• 我喜歡你老公的回複！典型的三明治方式！哈哈哈 -加州陽光123- ♀ (240 bytes) () 09/20/2023 postreply 18:34:28

• 爸爸是鼓勵為主。。 -不常冒泡- ♀ (0 bytes) () 09/20/2023 postreply 19:54:38