在多子女家庭長大的孩子的確可以減少離婚率。

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Growing up with siblings means you are less likely to get divorced later in life, a study shows. Researchers found that having brothers or sisters significantly reduced the chances of your marriage breaking down. For each additional sibling, the probability of divorce declined by up to 11 per cent.Apr 9, 2023

 

The study used data from the General Social Survey, which involved interviews with about 57,000 adults from across the United States at 28 points between 1972 and 2012.

The results showed that each additional sibling up to about seven provided additional protection from divorce, Downey said.  More siblings than that didn’t provide additional protection, although they did not hurt, either.

The good effect of siblings was seen among Americans of all generations studied.

“Siblings help protect against divorce among adults now just as much as they did 50 years ago,” Bobbitt-Zeher said.

The researchers took into account a wide variety of other factors that may have affected the results.

“One argument might be that it isn’t siblings that matter, but some other difference between large families and small families,” Downey said.  “It could have been that small families are more likely to have a single parent, or have some other issue that may hurt children in their future marriage relationship.”

So the researchers analyzed a variety of variables of both the respondents they surveyed and their parents that could have played a role in future divorces, including education, socioeconomic status, family structure, race, age at marriage, whether the respondents had children, gender role attitudes and religious affiliation, among others.

“When we added in all of these controls, nothing took away the relationship we saw between siblings and later divorce,” Bobbitt-Zeher said.  “None of these other factors explained it away.”

While the study itself can’t explain the protective effect of having siblings, Downey said there are good reasons for the findings.

“Growing up in a family with siblings, you develop a set of skills for negotiating both negative and positive interactions.  You have to consider other people’s points of view, learn how to talk through problems.  The more siblings you have, the more opportunities you have to practice those skills,” he said.

“That can be a good foundation for adult relationships, including marriage.”

這項研究很有意思。

1)每增加一個sibling, 可以減少2% (maximum 6 siblings)

2)  估計跟從小就鍛練交洗能力有關。

3)這是一項十年前的研究。

 

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習慣了各種矛盾,爭吵,知道這是生活的一部分,容忍度提高 -Amita- 給 Amita 發送悄悄話 (0 bytes) () 09/08/2023 postreply 17:30:40

獨生子女家庭也吵,要不吵大家都獨生子女了 -floweryrose- 給 floweryrose 發送悄悄話 (0 bytes) () 09/08/2023 postreply 17:32:51

可能有兄弟姐妹的從小學會了如何與人近距離地相處。 -小鬆鬆- 給 小鬆鬆 發送悄悄話 (0 bytes) () 09/08/2023 postreply 17:33:21

能忍唄。6個孩子 每人一個睡房都不能保證,就和我們小時候一樣,知道提要求是無用的,湊合慣了。 -無言無語無聲- 給 無言無語無聲 發送悄悄話 (0 bytes) () 09/08/2023 postreply 17:33:40

也不要忽視多子女如果不能一碗水端平給孩子帶來的傷害 LOL -加州陽光123- 給 加州陽光123 發送悄悄話 加州陽光123 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 09/08/2023 postreply 17:34:33

多子女家庭最後分遺產時翻臉成仇的也不少。人性不因為多幾個兄弟姐妹就都淨化了。 -小鬆鬆- 給 小鬆鬆 發送悄悄話 (0 bytes) () 09/08/2023 postreply 17:38:07

前段時間這裏的家長們控訴爹媽對待兄弟姐妹不公平的故事還曆曆在目呢 哈哈哈 -加州陽光123- 給 加州陽光123 發送悄悄話 加州陽光123 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 09/08/2023 postreply 17:43:06

哈哈哈哈。紫檀的都是飄揚過海的,大多不能照顧國內年邁的父母,還控訴什麽呀? -小鬆鬆- 給 小鬆鬆 發送悄悄話 (0 bytes) () 09/08/2023 postreply 17:45:17

控訴重男輕女,控訴給其他兄弟姐妹好吃好穿的,自己穿不好的 LOL 控訴錢給兄弟姐妹多於自己的 多了 哈哈哈 -加州陽光123- 給 加州陽光123 發送悄悄話 加州陽光123 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 09/08/2023 postreply 17:48:25

哈哈哈。 -小鬆鬆- 給 小鬆鬆 發送悄悄話 (0 bytes) () 09/08/2023 postreply 17:51:03

哈哈哈。 -Shanghaigirl98- 給 Shanghaigirl98 發送悄悄話 (0 bytes) () 09/08/2023 postreply 17:58:35

一般原因是有極度貪婪的配偶 -julie116- 給 julie116 發送悄悄話 julie116 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 09/08/2023 postreply 17:43:10

我發現夫妻生活久了,生活習慣和人品都互相靠攏了。有極度貪婪的配偶的往往不能出淤泥而不染。 -小鬆鬆- 給 小鬆鬆 發送悄悄話 (0 bytes) () 09/08/2023 postreply 17:46:55

學好不易學壞快。女兒居然能和女婿合夥算計自己的媽 -julie116- 給 julie116 發送悄悄話 julie116 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 09/08/2023 postreply 17:48:45

這是互相影響的結果,夫妻之間最後相貌也很接近了 -加州陽光123- 給 加州陽光123 發送悄悄話 加州陽光123 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 09/08/2023 postreply 17:49:35

能看上極度貪婪的並與其結婚的人肯定本身就沒那麽看重人品,後麵發生任何事都是不奇怪的。 -CarriePanda- 給 CarriePanda 發送悄悄話 (0 bytes) () 09/08/2023 postreply 17:56:44

識人需要透視眼。年輕時看上有野心的人做in-law 。年老發現野心用自己身上時一般是等自己失去權力時。 -julie116- 給 julie116 發送悄悄話 julie116 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 09/08/2023 postreply 17:59:27

有野心和貪婪也不是等同的,但兩個在約會過程肯定可以了解一二的。 -CarriePanda- 給 CarriePanda 發送悄悄話 (355 bytes) () 09/08/2023 postreply 18:06:34

Greed 是野心的一部分。用什麽樣的手法會有正道歪道之分 -julie116- 給 julie116 發送悄悄話 julie116 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 09/08/2023 postreply 18:18:05

極度貪婪一般很容易識別。能跟這種人一起生活的大多也是一丘之貉。 -小鬆鬆- 給 小鬆鬆 發送悄悄話 (0 bytes) () 09/08/2023 postreply 18:05:41

狼狽為奸,相輔相成 -julie116- 給 julie116 發送悄悄話 julie116 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 09/08/2023 postreply 18:16:50

哥哥說,如果你們$用不完,就都給弟弟好了。不知道再過幾十年,他還會不會這麽說 -成功的小羊- 給 成功的小羊 發送悄悄話 (0 bytes) () 09/08/2023 postreply 17:45:09

老婆估計不同意:) -julie116- 給 julie116 發送悄悄話 julie116 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 09/08/2023 postreply 17:46:30

哈哈。男娃娶妻後往往會有質的變化。 -小鬆鬆- 給 小鬆鬆 發送悄悄話 (0 bytes) () 09/08/2023 postreply 17:48:14

我老婆還好,我母親遺產什麽的全部都給了我弟弟,老婆沒什麽意見 -Amita- 給 Amita 發送悄悄話 (0 bytes) () 09/08/2023 postreply 17:55:22

媳婦總體能維護夫家大局。女婿更容易絞盡腦汁更名換姓變成自家的。生物本能? -julie116- 給 julie116 發送悄悄話 julie116 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 09/08/2023 postreply 17:57:28

哈哈, 有家庭後會變的。 -Shanghaigirl98- 給 Shanghaigirl98 發送悄悄話 (0 bytes) () 09/08/2023 postreply 17:57:59

朋友老大跟父母說,不用給我留錢,現在付老二一半(老二免學費,老大大學畢業時說的,還真說到做到) -成功的兔- 給 成功的兔 發送悄悄話 (0 bytes) () 09/08/2023 postreply 17:52:16

這個我信。 身邊有例子。 -Shanghaigirl98- 給 Shanghaigirl98 發送悄悄話 (0 bytes) () 09/08/2023 postreply 19:18:35

有利有弊。到最後看造化了。 -Shanghaigirl98- 給 Shanghaigirl98 發送悄悄話 (0 bytes) () 09/08/2023 postreply 17:48:45

難說。老美同事雙胞胎姐妹。婚前好的跟一個人似的,姐姐結婚以後馬上和妹妹不來往了,原因是老公不喜歡妹妹過來拜訪 -sept.- 給 sept. 發送悄悄話 (0 bytes) () 09/08/2023 postreply 18:06:13

顯然這個女的老公人品很差 -CarriePanda- 給 CarriePanda 發送悄悄話 (0 bytes) () 09/08/2023 postreply 18:11:11

據同事說,也不差,人很聰明,就是比較孤僻。她姐姐很喜歡 -sept.- 給 sept. 發送悄悄話 (0 bytes) () 09/08/2023 postreply 18:12:36

這還不差?標準太低了吧? -小鬆鬆- 給 小鬆鬆 發送悄悄話 (0 bytes) () 09/08/2023 postreply 18:18:03

孤僻也不能不讓老婆不跟自己親姐妹來往吧?孤僻的人不愛社交可以理解,但要配偶斷絕跟自己姐妹來往 -CarriePanda- 給 CarriePanda 發送悄悄話 (44 bytes) () 09/08/2023 postreply 18:21:01

這是一種控製手段。 -julie116- 給 julie116 發送悄悄話 julie116 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 09/08/2023 postreply 18:30:08

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